Reflection Moment: How Others Can Help Us See Ourselves

A few days ago, my mom corrected and warned me about a certain attitude I've developed over time. As I sat and listened to her, I reminisced about what she was saying. I've been doing this unconsciously, and it has become a part of me. The evidence of my actions was clear, and I couldn't deny it. The first time she mentioned it, I denied it, but this time, I couldn't defend myself.

As I reflected on my behavior, I realized that I had been denying what I had become. I had a conversation with myself, 'Jesuwibe, you think you're a good person, but you can be better. You can change. You've imbibed this behavior, and it's becoming a part of you. You can learn and unlearn if it's doing more harm than good.' I agreed with myself to be intentional about changing and imbibing more positive attitudes.

This experience reminded me of times when I've told people about their behavior, and they refused to listen. They became adamant, and it frustrated me. Now, I understand that they might not realize their behavior has become a part of them. They might think they're okay just the way they are. If those trying to help them aren't patient and intentional about their growth, they'll remain stuck.

So, I'm telling you that if people around you have been correcting or complaining about your attitude or behavior, take time to reflect on yourself. Look at the instances they've mentioned, and make an effort to be a better person. By doing so, you're not only helping yourself and your family, but also the society as a whole. Remember, 'A behavior formed by a person can become a manual for others to build upon.' Let's strive to shape our society positively.

I hope you gained value from my experience. Spread it, and don't let it be just you.

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