Disappointment doesn't kill, it teaches !!!...

You never lose, you always learn, and you end up winning, because understanding is not the same as accepting.

How beautiful everything would be if life were so simple. With this reflection of this day I am writing to you about the various situations in my environment, which keep me away from what hurts me.

I am learning that the one who destroys behind my back obviously wants to be like me. My best friend is myself. At this point in my life I don't trust anyone 100%, and sometimes not even myself because sometimes I don't know how I'm going to react, or respond to a situation that I criticize or complain about.

Currently I stay where they really invite me from the heart, where I feel at ease and where it doesn't matter what I have or do for him.another one. I have also learned that everything humiliating, sacrificed or suffered, I do it for love or to earn money in exchange for my work, not for pleasure or to help anyone.

Last but not least, I am giving a lot of value to my gifts, because no one else is going to recognize them. One dies of stress and anxiety for nothing, because we are not indispensable. Ahhhhh and understanding is not the same as saying "yes to everything".

Over time you learn that things can't be changed, that you just have to accept.

That anyone can fail me and that disappointment doesn't kill, it teaches.

Whenever possible, when I don't feel welcome, I usually retire in an elegant way, without making a noise, without breaking, without hurting, with the same beauty that arrives.

What I'm writing about reminds me that if it's not, it's not. Therefore, the strongest blow that life gives us is when we realize that not everything was really as we thought and that certain people are not as we think.

The people who are sick of "power".

These types of people are narcissists who belong to the world of perversity. They are the ones who get to those positions of POWER, with a lot of selfishness and evil, they do not mind taking others ahead, or damaging their reputation, etc...

They get out of the world of reflection and enter the world of arrogance, and narcissism, and getting out of there is too difficult, because power is like an addiction that absolutely dominates.

God save me, from falling into that world without form and darkness and terrible praise of everything, a world with absolute absence of love.

It was Carl Jung who said... "when love is the norm, there is no will to power. And where power prevails, love is lacking."

We are the architects of our lives, although it sounds like a cliché phrase, it's true. It is not about what others expect from one, but about what one decides, for example my power to choose to approach what fills me with fullness or to move away from what weighs me down and causes suffering.

The change is in our hands. I just learn to move forward, and not die trying.

Janitze 🌹