What are you doing for finance?

Humans are social beings, so humans can't live alone. At some point in life they need help, corporations from others. Humans need a family and combining some family within a specific area creates a community as well as society. So it's impossible to live a life without a society. Doesn't matter how much one human tries to stay far from society, in the end, that human will find him in society.

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As a human, I'm also a member of a society and I am also a part of society. Naturally, the impact of society plays a great role in the life of a human. The impact can be good or bad depending on the people of society and the culture or tradition because society is made of people. In the current time, many people try to ignore that impact on society because in most cases it has been seen that those impacts are negative but very few can ignore the impact on society.

According to my observation in a society, there exist very few well-wishers of anyone. Whenever people get the opportunity to pinch, they don't miss the opportunity. In fact, are always ready to make the best use of the opportunity to pinch someone.

From my childhood time, I was polite and decent, and as well as I know, I never offended anyone in my society. Many people used to praise me to my relatives for my good behavior and it's still the same. But now I crossed 25 and my responsibilities have also increased. Taking care of the financial things of my family has also become my responsibility, especially after my father returned from abroad during the time of COVID-19.

Some people of the society trying to create impact and I am giving some examples of it. One of my neighbors returned from abroad and he was discussing about me with my father and he was insisting my father to send me abroad for work. He stated the reason that I am not so interested too much in studying and I can't do anything in the field and he realized it when he talked with me. The surprising thing was I talked with that person 4 years ago for the last time. When my father said that thing I started to laugh thinking that if I was not so interested in studying then how I got admission to a top university in my country? Did I admit there using his recommendation? It was the first time I encountered with that kind of situation and it was unexpected but I understood that there would be the repeated of the same incident in different ways. So I told my father how to handle the situation and I told him not to go for an argument in that kind of case and simply accept what they want to say. They are not going to give me money, so it's pointless to make an argument without any benefit.

Whenever I go outside one question becomes mandatory for many people and the question is "What are you doing? " The meaning is what I am actually doing to earn money. Some of them used to show my faults and suggest I should do something else rather than doing study and it's killing my time and destroying my future. bla .. bla .. bla. In a word in my society, most of people specifically seniors are uneducated, and they think studying is a waste of money and waste of time. Not only them, but some educated people also say the same thing and that things actually hurt. The same thing happened not only with me but also with others and they also face similar kind situations. It seems in my county poking young people and demotivating them became a culture. I know I can't change their mental and so I have my ways to defend myself.

The first thing is I have a good reputation in my society and I try not to offend anyone and make anyone angry and I don't want any conflict. I can understand the psychology of those people and they just want to show them superior and they get satisfaction by doing it. If anyone argues with them he will be turned into impolite. I just act like I can understand all their words and I totally agree with them. I actually made a mistake by doing study and showing them the regret feeling and saying "I wish, You had given me the idea earlier. I mighty not make the mistake." I ask for their suggestion about what to do now. They become satisfied to hear those things from me and I end my talk asking them to give me a permanent job. I know they can't do it and I reply to them that till find a job I should continue my studies and they also agree with it😅 as they can give me a job.

I love to play mind games and I love to play the game with those seniors because they came to me to play their game and sometimes I used to call them if they had found a job for me or not. Sometimes my father used to ask for a job from them because I told my father to do that thing🤣. At the current time, those seniors try to avoid me because they know very well that I will ask about jobs from them.

I am thankful to my father for understanding the situation and not bringing any kind of pressure. I can generate a good amount of money at the end of the month by doing tuitions. Moreover, I have Hive which also exists as the backup for finance. I have nothing too much to do with my Hive earnings at the current time but I am treating it as my business for my future.

As long as I have continuous earnings and family members who understand me, social pressure is nothing and I am mentally enough strong to face all kinds of so-called societal pressure. I don't care about it.