Siblings rivalry is indeed interesting

Family members as well as family is the most important thing for anyone. Family members of those people who are ready to support us in any kind of situation. Our siblings are the best gifts for us from our parents. I believe that my siblings made my life more beautiful and enjoyable. I can't think about my life without my siblings, and I feel that without them, my life would be boring.

We are two brothers and one sister, and I am the elder brother. And my brother is the little one in my family, although he already entered in 15 some moments ago, as today is his birthday. And my sister is 21 now, whereas I am 25. In natural cases, it has been seen that rivalry between siblings occurs between two close age related siblings, but in my case, I have a very clam mind, so there was no chance for rivalry between my sister and me. In fact, I can understand her well; I can't remember if I quarreled with her anytime. Again, she also doesn't try to argue with me because she knows that I have the capability to defeat her easily by logic if I want. And in the case of the little brother, there is no reason to have a fight with him.

But my little brother and my sister always quarrel with each other. I don't know why my little brother acts aggressive when it's about my sister, and in the case of others, he remains. Somehow my sister is also reasonable behind his aggressive behavior, also because she allowed him to continue it from childhood, and some of her actions make him aggressive, which is natural, and those things give him the courage to be aggressive anytime against my sister. From my perspective, I don't like it because if such kind of behaviors are exposed in front of outsiders, they won't hesitate to think that my little brother has a lack of manners, and as an elder brother, I don't want to see my brother create a bad impression in front of others. Sometimes I scold him because of that kind of behavior.

Let's talk a little bit about my sister's behavior toward my little brother. One of the main problems is that she tries to order and control him. And my brother hates it when someone orders him to do something. In fact, my sister blackmail my little brother to follow her orders. She has many ways to blackmail him. I think she can go for polite and better ways to perform those tasks, but she goes for ordering him. And when my little brother denies her, she becomes angry. My sister's actions become childish when it's about my little brother.

Every day, both of them come to me and complain against each other for expecting a solution, and I also try to solve their issues as early as possible. You might be thinking that most of them are kind of enemies based on my description, but actually they are not, and I'm going to share the second part, which will clarify everything.

The good thing is that none of them go for a physical fight. Their quarrel ends in their mouths😅. It doesn't matter how many times they quarrel with each other, they never stop taking care of each other. Although I'm very close to both of them, both of them know each other better than me,e and both of them share their secrets with each other. If my sister becomes seriously angry for some reason, then my little brother knows pretty well how to break her angerness and make her happy.

When nobody stays at home, it's an open ground for both of them to fight, but do you know the opposite thing happens. In that time, both of them become united and don't quarrel. I know that both of them fight against each other most of the time, but both of them are their best friends, and I know both of them are isolated from each others. Again both of them try to protect or defend them when necessary.

At least I can confidently say that they are not enemies. Their bond is very strong, and there is nothing to worry about.