Always right!! is it?

Parents are the most important persons in everyone's life and parents are also known as the best gifts given to us from God. They take care of us, protect us from any kind of things, and try to make our life better and beautiful. They don't hesitate to sacrifice their dream, desires, and comforts for our happiness. So there is no doubt that whenever parents decide for us then they are taking it having the intention for our betterment and I don't have doubts about it. Sometimes we don't understand their thoughts and think they are making the wrong decision but actually, they are choosing the right one. Again sometimes they don't understand our sentiments properly and decide for our betterment but actually, it brings bad consequences.


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In my cases, my parents are very friendly, especially my father. They always tried their best to make my life better. In fact, my current life is good just because of their contribution and their many effective decisions. In my cases, I have seen them making the right decision almost all the time. But as humans, they are not also perfect and so some of their decisions were not good also and I need to face the consequences for it.

It's true that I was good at studying from my childhood times but I never imagined coming to town for my education. I love my village very much and I was not ready to leave my village at any cost. But my parents almost admitted me to a school in town and kept me in a relative's house to continue my studies. To be honest I was not ready to leave my village and live without my family for a single day. My parents technically forced me and set me to continue my studies in the town. In fact, they told me some lies also. Later I understood that they had taken the right decision for me. In my village the facility for education was not so good and finding good teachers was very difficult. They knew that I could do better with my studies and make my future keeping me in town for my studies cost huge in case of finance but they took the risk for me. In spite of many people trying to demotivate my parents, my parents stayed stick with the decision. From my side, I also tried my best and in my academic career I am still in a better position and I believe that it's the result of the right decision of my parents which was taken when I was in class 8. If they didn't force me to come into town for study then, the current situation might be different for me. So I am thankful to them for making the right decision.

Let's talk about a decision which brought bad consequences for me. It's true that currently, I am reading one of the top universities but I got the opportunity to be admitted to other Universities which belong to top universities in my country. I wanted to read other universities where I got a better department compared to the current one. But unfortunately, I got opportunities at other universities that existed in different divisions of my country. My parents didn't want to send me out of my division and as I got the opportunity to attend a top university also in my division they didn't allow me to go to other divisions for study instead of of wanted. And it was one of the wrong decisions because now I need to waste an extra 3 years to complete my graduation. I don't blame my parents for it because three years of loss was unpredictable and if they had known it, they would give me permission to read other top universities where I got the opportunity. Whatever I hope to finish my graduation this year.



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I agree with you that our parents always better for us and they want to us help but I'm happy to know that you didn't blame for your three year's waste to your parents, some similar things happen to me too but i never blame them as i can't imagine to blame them. Don't worry you learn at least something from this long duration of time too

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Loss is a loss for me and it was an uncertain and predicted thing. There is not point in blaming them and I think it's my fate because I had many possibilities to go to another department but in the end, I came to my current department and so I believe that it happened because of fate.
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Good parents are rare gems to us and you do have a good parents and you should be proud about them. One thing about love is being able to spot the wrong of those you love and not trying to hide it. Saying your parents made a wrong decision doesn't mean they Loved you less, it only means they made a decision based on what they thought was best for you.

Three years is not so bad after all and I think those three years would be what makes your education journey even more successful.

All the best partner 🥰

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Parents always want the best of mine and I don't have any doubt about it. In my case, my parents are quite understanding and I feel lucky for it.

I think you didn't get it😅. My 3 years are going extra means my graduation is supposed to end in 4 years but I am passing 7 years to complete graduation. So 3 years is a loss for forever.

Thank you for sharing your thoughtful compliment and for giving your most precious time to me.
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Well, that doesn't mean you were sitting down for the past three years too, hehe. I might not understand but I feel that those years are lost but they are also what is making you be where you are today.

You're always welcome 🥰, I'm more than happy to have stopped by. You needed to see how settled I was reading through, one might think I needed to pass an examination or something, lol

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No. I wasn't sitting for any time. There are total 4 years in graduation and in each year it should be completed but because of our lazy teachers the exams are delaying and Total delaying amount is 3 years. Approximately double time.. I hope you understand now.

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I have always understood but you don't seem to understand where I'm coming from so I'd just end it here, hehe.

Those years were wasted! 🙃

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Parents are never wrong they are always thinking the good of their children. Everyone should respect their parents and listen to them.

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Hmm, but they are not perfect also and sometimes some wrong decisions are made which is not intentional. That's the reality. And obviously, we always should be respectful to them.
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Our parents are a blessing to us and we're blesses to have them.

It's good to see their advice and guide to help you leave your comfort zone in the village is now playing a huge part in your life.

For the university case, I guess they just wanted the best and you to be in a safer place, not knowing it'll bring about delay.

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Hmm. I have no doubt about it whatever they decide, it is good for me and sometimes decisions can go wrong because they are human and it's natural.

In the second case they didn't want to keep in far distance from them and it's their love. I understand it and the thing happening to me was totally unpredictable otherwise they wouldn't have made the decision.
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One of the best gift from God is having good parents who are loving and risk takwrs maybe. Your parent already knew the state of the schools in your village which is why they insisted on taking you to town, that is a very wise decision since the quality of education has a great effect on us in some ways.

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Hmm. They did their part well and tried to make my future bright and now I can understand it which I didn't understand in the past and the wrong decision was made by them because they didn't want me to keep me in long distance. Moreover, it was an unpredictable situation.
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No parents mean bad for their children and like you said, they can also make certain decisions that bring about uncertain results but that is life. Nothing is set in stone. It's good that you always listen to your parents.

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Hmm. Sometimes because of uncertainty bad results can be an outcome but that doesn't mean parents wanted bad of us. We need to understand it otherwise there will be clash 😅.
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We can not say our parents are wrong but at least we should know that all beings are imperfect, we don't know it all. For the second scenario, if your parents had known what would happen in the future, they would have allowed you go for the university you wanted. All the same, they want the best for us.

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