Age is just a number. Is it?

Humans are unique and the thoughts of them make them unique. Instead of uniqueness maximum of humans go through the same phase of life and marriage is one of the most important events in the life of humans. For a happy married life, the relationship between couples plays a vital role. The love between couples makes a relationship interesting. But several times a question arises as to if the age gap has any significant impact on a relationship.

In most of the cases age gap can be clearly noticed between couples. In maximum relationships, the male remains senior, and the female remains junior. I think expect some exception it is followed by all of us like it is a heavenly rule but it’s not true and nobody is forced to follow it because everyone has the right to choose their partner based on their preference. So why does everyone try to follow it? There must be some reason also.
Love is the most important thing between couples in a relationship and there are no age restrictions when it comes to love. Emotion and responsibility both are necessary in love but somehow emotion seems more impactful and can influence responsibility also. So, when couples truly love and have common desires and have the capability to solve issues with mature decisions, then age is just a number. And unfortunately, finding that kind of couple is rare when it comes to same-age relationships the possible reason can be facing difficulties in maintaining a balance in the relationship. I know very few are capable of maintaining the balance but maximum of us don’t take the risk. Besides I think we have options and taking risks for it is not a wise idea also.

Senior males and junior females are the best combinations for a relationship and the age gap between couples can be 3-10 years depending one many things. I think you also know about it well. I am saying it and obviously, I will state my logic behind it also. Here I go for it.

Maturity is very important in every relationship and the female person is mature more compared to a male person and it’s biologically true. At the same age, females have better thinking ability to organize, and in a same-age relationship a male person leg behind in case of maturity. Having class between couples is quite expected. It’s not because anyone is wrong, it’s because the male partner may not be mature enough to understand what his female partner tries to make him understand. But if there exists an age difference the maturity lever may be the same and able to understand it better.

In the same age relationships, both males and females are equal, and both have similar opportunities. Both of them can earn and both can be self-dependent (a positive thing in my eyes). Sometimes quarrels occur but in such kind of relationship, nobody is ready to accept defeat. As both of them are self-dependent they do not hesitate to go for divorce also. In senior, and junior relationships female people have the mentality to sacrifice or admit defeat and that can end a quarrel. I am not saying that females need to sacrifice all the time, but their little defeat can save a relationship. In a time of quarrel, someone needs to keep quiet otherwise it will be chaos. It’s the reason why people say that a family is balanced by a female. By the way, don’t think they are dominated because they have their own ways of controlling their husband and the husband also needs to keep quiet when it’s time for their partner.

We live in a society and societal pressure can’t be ignored all the time. People in society don’t see same age relationships in a positive mindset and various kinds of societal pressures influence the couple and indirectly it can be a reason for destroying peace in a relationship. I don’t blame the couple for it because I think they have done nothing wrong. The thoughts of society’s people need to be changed. Whatever, in the end, those couples face the consequences, and I don’t like it.

To be honest, there is nothing wrong if anyone chooses a partner of the same age or senior female and I respect them, but I won’t dare to take the risk and I don’t want anyone to take the risk unless it’s necessary. I just said that age in a relationship is not just a number for maximum of us and that’s the reason we still follow in traditional system. We need to think practically in this case.