For Some Mysterious reasons Some African Men Doesn't Allow Their Wives To Get A Job
Greetings everyone, I am an African and I hail from a tribe in Nigeria which happens to be one of the major tribes popularly known for their successes in business, especially when it comes to buying and selling. As a matter of fact, the notable largest market in Africa is just a stone's throw away from my home. Now, I don't know if it is cultural or something else, but one thing I grew up knowing is that the rich and capable men in my society never allows their wives to go out and work for money.
They prefer being the ones to work and provide for the family as the sole breadwinner instead of allowing their wives to assist financially in any way.
Things have started changing gradually though, as many have been influenced through globalization, getting educated which became an eye-opener to many. I know of a man living within my estate who owns a well-known business establishment. His business seems to be a very flourishing one. He deals on female wears and has many people serving under him.
Each time the man passes by with his ride, you will know there is money because his cars are all exotic and luxurious, and looking at the different attires his wife wears on daily basis, you will love to make money yourself.
There is this old adage in my place which says, the beauty of a woman reflects the wealth of her husband, and in this case, it is so. I've heard stories of how the wife fought so hard to pursue her career as a lawyer, but her husband declined and instead preferred her to just stay at home and manage the affairs at home than work outside.
Her husband will always say that no matter how much she thinks she can make from her work, it will be no way near compared to how much his business generates on daily basis.
His wife later gave up and now is always at home except for each time she goes out for shopping or visiting their neighbors or their business premises. But even though the wife is not working, she looks so fresh, beautiful, and face-kinned like a freshly baked beautiful bread.
Some will always suggest it is good for her to talk to her husband and find something doing now, or even be saving money as no one knows what tomorrow will be like, but she has completely given up in trying to convince her husband or even trying to practice what she had studied.
I personally feel since there is understanding in her marriage and her husband can provide the family with all they need, she should just rest and enjoy the money. After all, who doesn't like good things? What do you think? Do you think there is still need for her to engage in one work or another? Let me see your own opinion.
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