Sibling Rivalry is more of Parental factor: How Siblings Rivalry set into a family

Hello friends? How are you doing today? Is it true that sibling rivalry is more of parents cause than the siblings? How does sibling rivalry set into a family? How can sibling rivalry can be resolved? On the
other hand, do you know that sibling rivalry can help them to grow their capacity and lived out their lives into a better person? I'm a first hand witness of sibling rivalry which I would share with you just stay calm. But before then let's know what siblings rivalry is, Sibling Rivalry is simply an ongoing relationship between (usually two) rivals who compete for superiority

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Sibling rivalry is s serious issue that must be consciously and diligently handled by parents to prevent it from metamorphosing into everlasting hatred, before I shared my experience between me and my elder brother, let's get to know of those factors that can cause sibling rivalry.

• Parental regards: Parental regards for their children differs from one children to another, this might be caused by how the behaves. Yes! that's true, each child behaves differently, some children are naturally endowed which makes them earn more respect and favor from their parents compared to other siblings. Meanwhile, parents love obedient and responsible child but that doesn't mean the one who is responsible today or are stubborn would not change later, one of the contributory factors to this, is age and circumstances surrounding their births. Whenever a younger sibling noticed that he/her parents has placed more regards for him/her over the immediate or bigger sibling(s), there's bound to be sibling rivalry and the worse would happen when he/she noticed parental support no matter how little it be.
  
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• Parental inability to share responding among siblings: Parental negligent in sharing chores among their children gives room for sibling rivalry, sharing responsibilities helps in the preventing and avoiding of sibling rivalry which could have set in if neglected by parents.

• Natural intelligent: Being smart or little more intelligent than others of the siblings what one of the driving factors for sibling rivalry, whenever a sibling noticed that he/she is little more than his/her siblings, such will began to possess domineering spirit, wanted to control every other siblings in the family. I grow up in the environment where they give more respect and attention to any individual who is academically sound than others, rendering the efforts and natural talents others are endowed with, giving room for sibling rivalry.
  
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I began to feel more superior than my elder brother immediately I noticed that both my mom and dad paid more attention to me than him, anytime I made complaints or complained about something, they'll endeavor to give me without delay but reverse would be the case if my elder brother is in the picture. Secondly, I was good in mathematics than my elder brother whenever we are given results for our academic performance from our teachers so the kind of treatment I will receive differs from elder brother which possessed serious sibling rivalry among us.

It's just my opinion that sibling rivalry is more of parental factor than the siblings, you're free to share your own experience and thought as well in this regard. The know more, you can use this link for more information.

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