The Cost of Overthinking: How Fear of Failure Can Sabotage Success
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Some of people never take their weak points seriously and some of always fear to face or deal with it and than there comes a time in life when you realise you should've worked on improving those things to become what you've always wanted.
Some of habits or traits in personality are the weak point that push us down and I've that too and need to be fixed asap. Well, let's discuss those ahead.
Some of my Weak Points: From Overthinking to Fear of failing
Overthinking is like both gift and a curse that can happen to any human and I've been overthinker in my entire life as far as back I remember.
It became a part of life to overthink about everything but than after when I was adult and had those responsibilities than it got even worse.
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Every decision and every step I made throughout these years was somehow ended up as something good or worse just because I did overthink entire night.
Like in Crypto I could've made it by now
Only if I wasn't an overthinker everything would've been much more better. Like they say less you know in trading, the more better you can do.
With every plan or trade I had on a platter.. this overthinking somehow messed it up or I didn't took any action just because the vibes didn't matched my overthinking.
So when I messed up those trades badly, I made bad decisions and than more decisions. Once I blowed up my years of savings just like that.
This overthinking just doesn't let me grow the way I want to but there's another weak point.
The second biggest weak point
I can't escape this fear of not meeting up people expectations especially those who are closed one like family and than there's a fear of failing inside me that keeps me back from growing.
Most of the time when I'm trying to make a tough decision whether it is financial decisions or any other...this fear always pop up in mind "what I'm going to do if I failed at it or went completely wrong".
Also there's a saying if you think it is going to go wrong than the probability is more higher.
I hold myself back from making decision just because I fear what will happen if I failed.. I can't deal with those consequences.
Rest I don't see anything else making any issues.. it's just these two things causing trouble.
Wrapping Up...
In the end we're in this never ending battle with our self where we have to fill these weak points and become better in order to grow.
We all have our own fears and reasons making up these weak points but eventually we'll be strong enough to deal with everything that's not possible or seem hard now.
I wonder what's your thoughts about it and would love to know it in the comments.

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Your weakness is also one of my weakness. Even though we can cheer ourselves sometimes not to think yo much, but shrugging it off completely is real hard. It's never easy especially if we see even small sign that this and that will fail or something. I mean, it is really hard to push it through no matter how bravely we try it 🤧🤧
Yea, you do know how it feels like.. wish we could escape this never ending overthinking..
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Over thinking is not really my think because just thinking about choosing an option out of two stresses me already. Identifying your problem, the weak points is the first step to solving it.
I hope everyone of us overcome our weaknesses soon.
Yea true, identifying those problems is like you've already fixed half of the problem.
Hope so we'll overcome!
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