Living Through Memories: The Bond Between Grandfather and Grandchild

Image Michal Jarmoluk from Pixabay

There are people who gives us so many memories in our life and those loving memories stays with us for rest of life even after they no longer exist in your life.


I remember all of the people who gave me moments that brings joys and sadness. I don't forget things like this and I believe no one forgets what other people do to us.

In my entire life I've cared for people more than I care about myself and one of the person I cared and who gave me so loving memories was my grandpa and it's been 5 years since I've lost him.


In Loving Memory of my Grandpa

I remember the time I've spent with him and he used to be strict about everything and so disciplined like not seen someone like him.

Even in his last days he did advised me that you've got potential and just don't waste it, these are the years you have do every possible thing to make your dream life.

Image by Goran Horvat from Pixabay

It was pandemic when he had last stage cancer and did every possible treatment but he just got more and more weak, i don't even want to talk about it.

The thing is It's not easy to live without someone who used to be with you to scold and teach things like no one else could.

For those who have been following me from a long time might have noticed that I never mentioned about my father and it was because I lost in early days of my childhood and never had any memories that I remember.

So, my grandpa was more like my father and losing him sent me back in the darkness all alone.

He used to admire hardworking people like he was one who came from a very poor family and build something for his child's.

After losing everything

The one thing that stayed with me was his memories and daughter who is my mother and now she's the only reason to live other than that there's nothing left in my world.

Image by Michal Jarmoluk from Pixabay

So, yeah I get strength everytime I see her face and the only moving forward is to not look back and don't cry about past things.

Everything happens for reasons and I believe they're in the better place. now it is my life and with those good memories it just gets better.

Wrapping Up...

I've seen many people around us are happy from outside but hiding their own stories and struggles behind that happy face.

We all have loving memories of people and one was that girl who I met like three years ago and still couldn't take out of my mind even though she isn't in my life anymore.

So, yeah these loving memories doesn't go anywhere no matter how hard you try, it just stays in your head and sometimes it becomes painful but I've accepted the reality and trying to live in the present.

fin.

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Grief takes a lot of time, one moment you think you're fine the next you're crying all over again.
Thank God you have your mum who reminds you of your Grandpa.

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It is tough to lose people that we care, it is difficult to stay with someone that you love with cancer, can be harsh.
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Never really knew my grandpa that much, we only saw each other during few holidays that I was privileged to travel to the village, well no longer a village now. I spent more time with my maternal grandmother but one thing I can say about spending time with them is that they have a way of creating everlasting memories with us.

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I've seen many people who haven't seen grandparents at all.. the memories we have created us something we should be grateful. Sooner or later there will be a time when we'll live together again and met the lost ones.

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