Long distance relationship
Love and relationship...
I know most people run from long distance relationship, but me? I actually love it
I love attention, I love hearing from the person I love constantly, and if I get that from a distance? I'm good.
In fact I prefer it that way, I'm the kind of person who doesn't enjoy too much disturbance, constant visit, the pressure to go out all the time, it can make the idea of a relationship feel exhausting. But with distance, there's space, there's room to breathe, and yet that doesn't mean there's less love
For me relationship are build on a foundation, communication, commitment sacrifice and trust, if I can get all these, it doesn't matter how many miles are between us, even people living under the same roof can struggle with understanding each other, misunderstanding don't care about distance, that's why I believe trust covers everything
I've been in a long distance relationship and honestly, it was one of the best I've ever had. There was love and everything that comes with it, we communicated all the time, we understood each other and things just flowed,
Funny thing is, I didn't even think I could handle that kind of relationship, I use to think I needed constant physical presence because of how much I value attention, but life surprised me
We used to live not too far from each other in school, then work pulled him away, I thought it would break us, but it didn't, it made us more stronger
I'm not sharing this to convince anyone to love or hate a distance relationship, I'm just saying if you have all you need in a relationship, any relationship can thrive
Being close doesn't guarantee faithfulness, trust does and love, real love travel any distance
Love is not just about being with someone all the time, it's about showing up, caring, being there and making the other person feel seen
It's in the little things,
The late night messages , the jokes, remembering what they like, what they love saying and being there when they need someone to talk to
Love takes patience as well
It doesn't have to be perfect or full of big moment
Sometimes, it's just two people choosing each other again and again
No matter how far apart they are.
Love is not about how close you live
It's about how close you feel in your heart, and when it's real
Even distance can't take it away.
While we are open to our thoughts I don't like it, but it's something I'll have to embrace 😊