My stress story some time ago
Hello friends,I hope you are all fine and doing great. This Post is my entry to Weekly Featured Content in the #Hivelearners
community.Today's topic to write about is Stress factor.There are events and moments in our life that cause us to be under a lot of stress. There are many problems in daily life, the most stressful for a common man is running a distressed household, giving good education to children, all these things have become very difficult nowadays in this era of inflation.
The stress factor
Some time ago I was to marry my sister. I am the eldest in the house, so me and my father together take care of many things in our house. The responsibility of my sister's marriage was also on me. My sister got engaged last year. And my sister's in-laws put a lot of pressure on us to get married as soon as possible. But we did not have enough money to marry our sister. They put a lot of pressure on us to get married. My father and I were very worried and wondering how the wedding expenses were met and where did all this money come from? I thought a lot and then decided to take a loan from the bank. I couldn't see any other solution now. And we didn't have time to wait so I had to decide to take a loan from the bank. When I got the loan information from the bank, they made me even more depressed. The bank loan rate was so high that I could not borrow. I didn't have enough money to repay the bank loan, so I didn't think of taking a loan from the bank. Now I was in a lot of trouble.
At that time I had no idea what to do for my sister's marriage. Then I contacted all my friends. And demanded money from them and told them about my problem, my friends encouraged me and said that there is no need to worry, we all think about something together, then all my friends gave me money as much as they could. I thanked them and told them that I will return this money to you soon. All my friends told me ok no problem. Finally, with the help of Allah and all my friends, I got my sister married. All my family members are very happy on my sister's marriage. And I saw so much happiness on my sister's face. Seeing all of them, I also felt happy in my heart. After my sister's marriage I was again worried to return the money to all my friends. One problem does not end, another problem comes, well, it has become a part of life. I paid back my friends loan with hard work and dedication it took me 2 years to pay back the loan.
Now I'm pretty much okay because I solved my big problem of refunding all the money to all my friends. Now I do not worry about anything with the grace and grace of Allah Ta'ala. I am very thankful to all my friends who helped me.
The causes of stress can be many, some get stressed due to problems at home, some get worried due to illness, thus every person is suffering from different types of stress. Whenever I am more worried, I share my worries with my friends. And they help me a lot to get out of this problem
**Thanks for reading**
Yeah kudos to you for determination ,dedicating your time and not given up , at long last you were able solve your problems and conquer your fear
When responsibilities come to a person, we have to do all this. We also have to bear the stress. And along with that responsibilities also have to be fulfilled.
Thank you very much for your comment
Dealing with loan is not an easy thing. I'm glad you were diligent enough to prioritize repayment of the loan. That's a very good, amazing and fabulous gesture from you. Paying back whatever we owe will make it easier for us to get another one whenever we need a loan.
You have to pay the debt. Debt is also a stress. Until we pay it off, we are in trouble. Therefore, we should not take time to pay off the debt.
Marriage should be about two people's love and their plan to spend their time together for the rest f their life (supposedly) and not about money. Once people realize that, life will be easier. I know there are cultural differences, but this is just stupid. Taking out loans, asking for money from others is not right.
This has to be done in matters of marriage, if the marriage is sudden, it causes a lot of trouble. But we have to solve it
Thank God, your friends helped you in your sister's wedding. It is no doubt big burden and stress when you have a marriage and not able to support this financially.
It is rightly said that there is a lot of stress at the time of marriage. And at this time the help of friends is a very good offer
With the support of the family, all the burdens you feel at this time are a little reduced, indeed being the oldest child in the family has a great burden
right said that all the responsibilities are on the elder child
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