RE: Back to Feminine: The Love Language.

When I see people that their fathers left them and they have to stay with their mum, it made me want to just forget I even had a mum. Why did she leave us with my dad when most women out there would do the opposite? I remember how much I didn’t like her since she left my dad to struggle all by himself with 3 children (2 girlsssss and a boy). My dad tried so hard to figure out the things we needed as girls, I saw that.

Today, I speak with my mum and I’m ready to forgive her but I won’t say I have forgiven her completely. I sometimes wonder how better things would have been for my family if she stayed but I guess this is it for us. Like you rightly pointed out, letting go and forgiving is something you and I have to do for the sake of ourselves and our future family.

Bringing back your feminine might take time but I like one thing about seeking for something, as long as you don’t give up, it will definitely come back.