Why Less Availability Boosts Your Prosperity
Imagine you're the kind of person that is always there for everyone. You cannot say no, you always say yes, you keep saying yes to every favor, and you keep trying your best, stretching yourself to please others. This might feel like kindness or you're doing the right thing, but the truth is, when you're available for everyone, people stop valuing you. It's not about acting too good or very distant, but it's about knowing, keeping knowing how to keep balance when it comes to life.
This is a mindset that you need to embrace right. You can protect your worth and push to provide your prosperity and sometimes strengthen your relationship. This is why you have to limit your availability to others and keep the balance. We know that the nature of human is so funny. We are meant to be ungrateful, and we tend to only chase or cherish what is scarce or rare, and we take for granted what is always available to us.
Do you know why we value diamond? Because it's always scarce, not everywhere. Then I didn't know why, with all these mysteries, what I don't know the importance because we see what are everywhere. The thing goes for you too. When you're always too available to people, people start seeing your availability as normal and expecting your kindness and seeing it as an entitlement. That your time, your precious time, your energy, and that your presence will begin to lose their value around them.
But when you set boundaries and sometimes limit your access, something better happens. Your value increases, people begin to respect you, people begin to come with you with intention, and it needs to also give value to you instead of expecting value from you always. And your presence will eventually be treasured. This is not about playing that hard to get, but it's about knowing your own words.
When you are always available, it can lead to some stress. When you feel drained, when you feel undervalued, your absence can bring back your value. Sometimes you might think saying yes is just everything you need, but that is a big sign of weakness, not strength. Your main kind is that when you begin to respect others enough even when and to know when to withdraw when it matters.
When you practice how to make yourself scarce sometimes, you are creating space for your own good and your creativity and your own peace and self-discovery. This is what we call self-respect, and self-respect always attracts genuine connections, a lot of opportunities also.
How do you start? You make things clear from the outset. Know your dues are done. Sometimes you can politely decline some requests that do not align to your goals or does not that takes away your peace. You should work on a schedule and guide it to a, even if you love someone and you share with them, but don't let them, don't let your constant availability make you your value in their eyes.
Know how you spend your time with people, because time is your most precious assets, is what you used to be your, your own personal value. Value others, love others too, but sometimes be selfish with your time. That is how you increase your own value too. It doesn't matter that you have to limit your too much exposure to those around you, even your loved ones, protect your energy, and watch how you keep growing and increasing your value.
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