Stop Playing The Drum For Them If You Are Tired
There is a saying that,
The person dancing to a beat of the drum that is being beating. That person does not know the energy it takes to beat the drum.
As long as the drum keeps playing, they will continue to dance and dance, and they would never mind if the drummer gets tired or not. And if along the way the drummer stops drumming, they will begin to rant and complain.
This is a typical example of how life is. People will come into your life when your are doing well and they would want to help you spend your money. If you are such a person don't ever think these people will reduce their greed and pity you when you don't have or cannot provide.
If you do not regulate how you spend on these people, they will keep demanding and spending, as long as you keep accepting and giving. And you know what? The day you stop giving, they will forget everything you ever gave to them. The only thing they will only remember is what they asked you for that you didn't give to them. That is just the reality.
So, if you are wise enough, you should stop beating the drum for them when you are tired, or else when you can no longer continue and you have passed out, they will quickly move over to the next drummer that is available and abandon you. If you cannot keep up with giving, save yourself and stop, you are never Important as you think, you just have what is important to them.
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