The Life Experience that changed everything..

is it not amazing how life molds us everyday Into someone we aren't or someone we hope to become, that's why we all have icons or role model someone we look up to and in the other case there are people we come across and that change the whole narratives about us.

I often say it that we are a product of our environment, friends. family and most importantly the experiences that help shaped our lives, I strongly believe each and every one of us we're born with some innate abilities it's like we have potentials but how that potential turns out depends on were we grow up, the experiences surrounding our birth or growing up all these go along way to Influence us in every way possible, see it like buying a new SD card with a capacity to store files up to 128GB, the SD card is empty but can hold huge files now what you store in it determines how well it serves you.....

experience is what determines our character and behaviors in life, no person was born good or bad even if the parents were notorious criminals, but how ever the circumstances surrounding his birth and upbringing determines 100% the character traits that child exhibit.

there are Experiences i had growing up that changed the whole picture of how I see human being, before now I'm someone who believes every body has good intentions, I relate genuinely with everyone without any doubt in my mind, I just happened to love and care and do everything within my power to help out, I hate seeing someone sad, I was all out even to the detriment of my own person even if it will cost me something dear, I've always wanted to help not untill I fell into a ditch.

One time a friend asked me to help out with a business idea he had, didn't know how to go about it, and he had this space he aunt gave him, since I can do pastries and cakes stuff he asked that I help him out with the whole process setting it up, since he was my friend and since it's something I can literally do with ease I obliged, this is just me helping out with what I can do so?........

it took me about a month to finish and we started, along the line I observed that he was kinda leaving everything on me, since I could do most of it by the way, but that wasn't what I opted for, I had to device a plan to cut out, even tho i had invested so much into this business, my time , resources, my personal funds hoping to get it back once everything is underway.

It was all false, my friend like all of a sudden started acting strange to the point of accusing me of theft and squandering his business... me that even went out of my way to do all this with lots of my money in it, wow, I was truly shocked, this thing got serious into a fight and he threatened to involved the police

To settle this he demanded a certain amount that I pay him, you know all those stuff you see in the movies were the guy will ask the lady "After all I've done for you?" that's pretty much it, had no option I've gotten myself stuck in the mord and had to struggle my way out alone

it's from that day I swore never to trust any human 💯 cause somehow behind the simple smiling, gentle harmless face you see lies a dark side that isn't seen.