The Beauty Of Simple Things In Relationships
So yesterday i went out on a walk with a friend of mine, then a couple drive past us in their small mini scouter, just the guy his wife and their child in front, while we both admired them how simple life is looking at them we saw the simplicity of life, just the three of them in their small bike, depicting a true nature of what we call a nuclear family...
Immediately we began a discussion about the simplicity of life, how most people don't really need the cars big houses everything nice and in place and could just meet and decide to get married that even with the very little things one has they can both decide to get married and live happily together, be contented with what they have as a couple...
But the society we now live in has all of a sudden raise the standard so high, you must have certain level of wealth before a decend lady agrees to go on a date, these things have paved ways to all sort of lies and faking things in relationships just to get by then sooner or later their real intentions is revealed
While as we talk she said its not like the society raised this standards it's just the manipulative nature of human life, for instance a lady sees man she loves or a man that approached her and without physical assessment or anything accept him and loved him honestly, but then the man might just not accept the love because it came out without any heck, on the other a guy sees a lady he likes and approach her, it's either the lady accepts him but on grounds that he's able to provide for all her needs, so the grounds of acceptance is not true love but as a means to an end.
A guy who has been through this experience with probably hard breaks will now want to get better at the game put up some fake life just to lure and impress a lady then once that is done the real act is revealed, so you see this back and forth drama in relationships meanwhile in a very simple approach a man and a lady could meet genuinely and decide to become couple and work things out honestly to build a simple life and a future for them selves and their kids with out any societal influence.
While I talk with my friend I concluded by saying in all of these things as we navigate the course of life we're bound to meet with the right person that truly refines How we think and our past experiences in relationships so don't just conclude on any case, love is a beautiful thing and it's one of a kind feeling when it's with the right person.
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