Re-routing my thought pattern....

If overthinking could build a castle, I'd raise myself a skyscraper, I'm that good with over thinking, things often get too complicated and obvious that I don't know how to maintain steeze, somehow from my mood or facial expression or body language you will know that something is definitely wrong with me, I hate it but still I can't help it, I will just worry....

And the reason is because I am someone who will meticulously get things perfectly planned out and will diligently and carefully follow through with the routine to ensure it happens perfectly as planned, but if anything goes out of order at any point in time to mess with my plans or to twart my result I just loose control and totally loose orientation...like I'll just go off balance ..

Few days ago I was having a talk with my friend we actually talked at length and while I explained my frustration to him and how I have tried to curb and atleast learn how to pretend or hold up atleast so it doesn't really show how the weight of things affecting me, how I've tried to stop overthinking cause I really want to win this fight.

Overthinking or worrying is something I often find myself in even without knowing. I have tackled this from the scriptural bases, I know the assurances and promises of God still yet its like circumstances beyond my control, but I won't give in just yet,

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And so after I had a discussion with my friend and he told me about how to factor-in the other invisible factors in to my plan, because these other invisible factors can over ride our plans causing things to go off as planned there by making me to over think getting myself disturbed and worked out.

so I learn that while we all have excellent perfect plans we don't have all the necessary factors to make them happen, certain things might cause them not to happen and so the earlier I realise and Incorporate them into my plans that can actually help me stay on guide and to switch off lane from plan A to plan B and not experience heart break.

As I'm beginning the second half of the year I am strongly laying off every negative thought of regrets, overthinking, laying off every depressing thought, I will plan well, hope well, look out for the possible outcome for every event that I plan for, but still I will learn to factor the likelihood and the possibility of things not perfectly going as plan and so helping me to incorporate sub-plans into my main plan, this is not being pessimistic but it being realistic that we don't really have ability to control all factors to work perfectly well for whatever plans to materialise....

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