Midnight Self Reflection: everything In Life Respond To Value
This is a mantra I created some time ago about my general observation about life and In trying to grab all that is happening i realise this singular factual truth that everything in life respond to value.
You know growing up I had a very different understanding and perspective about life, I really didn't figure out what was going on but deep down I knew that there is more to life than what we've all come to know, i was kin to observe and study how everything was going on, and I deduce from my conclusion that life is truly built on the pedal of value, the reason is because growing up I really do admire the rich and very wealthy folks , looking all nice, driving nice cars, living in luxury apartments wearing good cloths and all of that, but most importantly for me I Don't just admire their affluence but what and how they are able to create such a system of wealth that resonates with their status.
I found out that life only responds to those who have something of value to offer and life is built and sustained effectively around value, so in order to stay relevant and on demand you must create something of value if not then you will probably be somewhere building value for another, the corporate world understands this that's why they are willing to offer you money call salary just to you help build their value either through creation of goods and services or coming up with some ideas to help them maximize the value market.
everything rises and plateaus on the value principles including our relationships, sometimes i hear people say the moment he traveled abroad or made money or got married or got the job he or she no more have time for me , this is however not just boyfriend or girlfriend relationships, it's cut across all forms of human relationships, the reason that happened is because this so called person has somehow evolved unto some higher levels and as such now relates within and from that stand point and so if there is nothing of real tangible reason why whatever relationships it was to go on then there is no valuable reason to, of what value is there in the relationship, I don't think people just get bossy over night it just that the higher you rise in life the more you realize that the normal 24 hours is no more enough to go round, and so you need to be very discreet and wise by properly managing your time in allocating what's most important to what has the most value, it's like perfect combination of opportunity cost and scale of preference to make the most of your time.
I asked a friend and I said "Why do you think a man will choose to stick to one woman when there are millions of women out there?" its beyond just physical looks or whatever attribute the woman has, it's got to be value , some inherent value that the woman has which is very unique and special, there will come a time when love is not enough something more than I love you is required to bond the relationship.
There is a need to think create and live value in every aspect of your life because life only and only respond to value if there's no value whatsoever then there is obviously no possibility of been relevant and staying on demand that's the only way to put your self up there and avoid a life of mediocrity
You've succinctly captured it correctly that to remain relevant, you must have value or probably have something valuable to offer. However, in the aspect of a man and a woman relationship, most times it's not that a woman has value to offer, but as a result of a love he has for her and that love is on a ground of truth without any conditions attached.
Meanwhile some may keep a woman as a result of what she offers but not in all cases.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts.
in the case of a relationship between a man and a woman i would disagree with you on that because the number one primary duty of a woman is to support the man, or a help, value in this case is not only in monetary but in some other forms like advise, brainstorming on a positive path like been able to assist in the relationship and offering some form of value driven assistance, most relationship lack this that's why most relationship failed, love alone in a relationship is not enough there ought to be something more than that to keep the bond alive
its it's a pleasure
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