Can Money Buy Happiness?: Conclusion of the whole matter

The talks of money and happiness is always a controversial one, because it's just normal that when you have money you should be happy, let's take for instance a child who has been crying and all of a sudden the mom hand him his favorite super hero toy immediately he'd stop crying.

at some point it became a social media hot talk of town, 80% of all I saw definitely said money brings happiness and on a honest grounds I totally agree with that opinion, because as far as life is concerned the one and only thing that is very paramount to life and is like an underlying factor after the normal 24hours every human share equally is Money.

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somehow money is connected to everything there is in life, the only thing money can't do is buy the life that we all have, but if you carefully analyze it money can safe life to a great extent, is it a family who needs urgent cash for a surgery to be carried out. is it a child that is kicked out of school? for lack of school fees? is it a marriage that is on the brink of breaking up because the man is not competent in providing for his home, who receives insult even from his wife? is it to acquire certain things we want dearly to make us live okay? or the very least to have what to eat? all of this things need money.

but then I am of a different school of thought that altho money can buy Happiness it's to an extend and not entirely true.

True-life story a wealthy woman, doing so well, earning roughly half a million who owns like literally everything life has to offer, one time committed suicide and gave up, this is someone you would envy that has it all, but what happened? what was it that money can't buy.

I don't want to cite different instances of such stories....money and Happiness are both relative terms it's liken the word Good and Bad, what is good to you is bad very bad to someone else and vice versa.

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as far as life is concerned money is concerned because everything you need in this life money is in involved but money is not really the soul custody of happiness, I know of a very young girl who was barely 20, was doing okay had a very handsome Boyfriend but was married to an old man literally the age of her grand father there is nothing anyone will tell me that money isn't involved because the Oldman was very wealthy it was very obvious and crystal clear of the motives she was compelled to marry the man.

this goes on to tell you that when you have money there is no height and places and things you want to do and have that you can't have, with so much money comes so much power but there is a clause to that statement, there is an exception to that mindset of "money brings happiness"

the talk of money and happiness like I said is just a relative term now to the poor money can get you every and anything in life but to the rich who have actually handled money and gotten everything and actually understood the psychology of money there is a "BUT" to that statement that money isn't everything and happiness is just a by-product of having money not the actual custodian of "HAPPINESS".

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if not tell me why King Solo of all people in the Bible with so much wealth that no one was close to him came out side one day and said everything is vanity and gasping for the wind, his heart weary him and he was sad despite all the money he had.

it's like when you are outside admiring the life of a very rich and influential man so much you wish to be like him, untill you you actually get into his shoes and get to know all that he is going through then you will just wish to be just as contented with what you have and where you are,

it's like the saying money is the root of all evil that's wrong, money is innocent here rather it is "THE LOVE OF MONEY" that is "THE ROOT OF ALL EVIL"

the drive for money because it brings happiness has actually taken a lot of our young guys and ladies to do unthinkable and unimaginable things inside just for them to get all this things and they can't really have true genuine happiness and joy

however this is not to over rule the place of money because if you're poor there are certain limitations to you but money will open certain doors just so you know work hard be diligent, be consistent go all out keep your head up and make genuine money that's when you will experience true happiness

This post is an etry into the @therealtalk community prompt for this week check out the main post here

https://ecency.com/hive-157568/@therealtalkk/real-talk-prompt-9-money