It Hurts To Let Go But It Worth It

For peace to reign it is better some persons just go because it will all be for good and our sanity will be retained at the long run.

Happy mid-week to you all, hope the week is going well? Mine is not going so well but I pray for a testimony at the end

There is no man that's an Island at one point of our lives or the other we need people because they will some how serve a purpose. Some years back I had someone in my life who we were all hoping that things just work well so we could spend the rest of our life together. As time progressed I noticed that we have different values because our family make up was not same at all. At some point I was thinking I could tolerate as marriage is not for two perfect people but two persons who are willing to make adjustments for each other.

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One thing happened that threw us apart, No Respect For My Family. The kind of value I place on my family is not one I can withstand anyone pouring disrespect to them. One ability I have is one to notice things even before they go far, so I will be left with going or returning.

I decided to call it a quite because we are not even married and he was behaving that way, so what if we now finally gets going. One thing was that, I didn't hesitate to tell him the reason am parting ways with him. He felt so terrible but truth be told he wasn't ready to change.

After we parted ways, I came across my husband now and the opposite was the case. Someone who will not even want to hear you speak bad about his family. Even there is something I noticed that he should be careful with, he won't even want to hear. This is now the case of striking balance because it is also a defense to my own family. Gradually he learnt to ask what I feel about issues and that has helped us stay away from several trouble. Now if there are issues that my Mom is finding it difficult to handle she calls on him to step and that has been working so well.

Talking about remedies to this relationship, it would have been a temporary one. I have heard of men who stopped their spouse from going to her own people after marriage and some in-laws who doesn't even care for the wife's people and that could be terrible. I was not ready to find myself in such situation because I just need peace of mind knowing that my mother have been through a lot and don't want an in-law that will cause her further pain.

Somethings are not just meant to last for long because if we persists that things that shouldn't last stays we will ever leave to regret it and at that point there is nothing we could do as I don't believe in divorce so it's better I take my time though it pained me in no little way.

My second entry for the #126 edition contest. Thank you for coming around my blog. Stay Blessed