The Crisis Of Motherhood: Can A Working Class Woman Be A Perfect Mother?

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Good morning to everyone, how are you doing? I have different scenarios to paint in this article today.
I have a friend called Zuzan, she is working for Arik Airline. She has two kids, one is 5 years old and the other is 3 years old. Zuzan might not be at home for two or three weeks; at times, she would be with her children for 3 to 4 days.
Since she did not have so much time to spend with her kids, Zuzan and her husband planned to get a Nanny for their kid. They got a young lady who was searching for a job; it was a good wage for the young lady. She accepted the offer to manage it for a while before getting a big offer. That was her plan.

As times went on, The lady began to develop feelings for the man because she was the one doing all the house chores for the man.
There was a day the man came home drunk, he had sex with the lady. After the next day, the man told the lady to use a drug to prevent her from pregnancy. He went to a Pharmacist, got her the drug.
The lady acted as if she took the drug whereas she didn't. After the first attempt by the man, he became very interested in the lady. He took her out shopping, bought things for her- shoes, clothes, necklace, and more.

That was how their love story started, everything was hidden from his wife. The wife and the children didn't know what was going on.
The lady got pregnant and hid it from the man for 4 months. After 4 months, she decided to speak to him.
“Sir, I'm pregnant.”
The man Replied, " what! Do you want to spoil my home? Do you want to kill me? Why will you be pregnant? Now that it has happened, we need to find a solution to it and the solution is to abort the baby.”

The Nanny replied, “It is an abomination to abort a pregnancy in my family; If I abort the baby, I will die. Every female that tried it died in the process.”

Before his wife came back from work, he searched for a new apartment for Nanny, told her to resign from this work.”

He called her wife, “Hello dear, the Nanny has gotten the job from a company, and she has resigned to take up another job."

When his wife came back, they searched for another Nanny to take care of their kids. They got a 45 year old woman to take care of the children.

At this time, The husband no longer sleeps at home as usual. He started sleeping in the apartment she rented for the first Nanny that was pregnant for him.
He always lied to her on phone calls saying, “I'm in the 2 day workshop."
The Wife believed and trusted him because they were together for 10 years before they got married. they went to the same secondary School and Tertiary institution. She didn't know that a Nanny lady could change his love.

When she came home from work after 3 weeks; her youngest child said, “Mummy, Daddy don't come home like before. I missed you, I missed daddy.”
" Ok, I heard you, my cute boy, don't tell Daddy like that, ‘ok’.”
She told her husband, “My love, I'm going to work tomorrow."
He replied, "Safe journey dear."

She didn't go to work, she lodged in a hotel, gave someone an assignment to monitor her husband. Within 3 days, she found the location where her husband used to go with the help of the woman that she gave the assignment to.

On the fourth day, the wife was already in front of the building where her husband used to go. After 2 hours, the man came and entered the building with his car. She knew that the security man would not allow her to enter. She decided to go back to the office . She went for two trips, and told her boss to give her a week that she wants to spend a week with her children and husband.

Her boss granted her request. She didn't tell her husband on the phone that she's coming home. She lodged in a hotel close to the location that her husband rented for the Nanny lady.
His wife talked to the security man that was in-charge of the house, and offered her twice his salary. “don't be scared, this is my company identity card, that man is my husband, I just want to know what he's doing here.”

She showed her the pictures of their wedding, and many pictures. That was how the security man agreed. The security man told her the apartment number.

At this time, the Nanny lady had already given birth to a baby girl.
When Her husband walked into the apartment; 2 minutes later, She walked into the apartment, and knocked on the door.
The Nanny lady was saying, “who is there!!! When She refused to talk, She went on to check the person that was knocking on the door. The moment she opened the door, The wife of the man rushed inside and found her husband, Nanny and the little child.
That was how she found out that her husband had a wife and child.

There was a commotion in that apartment that very day. The other tenants came to intervene. That was how the people knew that the lady in the apartment was Nanny.

That was how the lady filed for a divorce… Her divorce was granted by the court but the man does not want to sign the divorce documents.
“I love my wife so much, but everything that happened to me was a mistake. The night I drank caused everything. I'm sorry.”

The wife replied," I can no longer live with you because you are infidel. Many men have seduced me, some of them are multimillionaires. I refused because I'm married, I can’t cheat on my husband. I love him the way he was, and I respect all the oaths we took on our wedding day. The only thing I could do is to divorce him or else I won't forgive him. Divorce is the only way I can forgive her.”

That was how she became a singer woman! She refused to remarry, Faced her career and kids.

Being a single woman could be good and also bad because the children need their father.
What do you have to say about Zuzan?
Did she make the right decision or not?

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