RE: Real Talk Prompt #15: Not Everyone You Lose Is a Loss

@chatsunny Letting go is very difficult. Even though it has a great benefits. Hmmm!! It is easier said than done. And I must say this clearly, it takes a strong mind to truly let go. When we lose someone or something dear, the disappointment can cut deep down, almost like a part of us is missing.

The reason why many people find it hard to let go is because we have not accepted the situation as reality . And everything still feels like a mirage, something we cannot fully understand. We keep replaying the moments, trying to know how it all happened. I have come to see that it is possible for a person to keep rehearsing pains, going over them again and again. And as long as one keeps doing that, there will be no way to move on. Such a person will remain on the same spot. And funny enough this can happen for a whole year and more than. While the victim will not even know that time has gone.

I will like to submit that Letting go is not weakness, it is a sign of strength. It helps you to be focused and to find peace you have said. Though it is not easy and may take time, the heart will heal and the mind will find clarity again.

If you find anyone in this situation help me tell them in the process, do not die. Please do not die. No matter how heavy it feels, there will surely be light at the end of the tunnel. Please, hold on and stay alive.