RE: In the Noise, I Still Want Silence

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This was a long read but a good one!
I feel I've been in this place before, I really do not like unnecessary attention and spotlight, I like to do things and stay hidden, stay quiet yet still shining my light in the little corners I find myself, leaving behind footprints that doesn't really draw too much attention.
So I really feel you but it's not a good thing to be afraid of fame, if you aren't just beating yourself up trying to be famous, but it just happens, it comes to you, then don't fear it, allow it, accommodate and embrace it cause it means that you are ditching out value, values that impact other people's life, this is why the spotlight came to you.
Sometimes we have these fears but it shouldn't consume us, we just learn to embrace it while staying focus and not losing ourselves in it.

As for sisterhood, I rather wished I had a younger sis too along side my elder sister.
So you are lucky to have one, you can set the pace for your younger siblings, you are already affecting their lives with values and that is a good thing, so be proud of yourself for being such an amazing person that wants to pour into women's lives.
I wish you the very best in your content creation



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Aww, thank you so much for reading through and sharing your thoughts!

It’s comforting to know I’m not the only one who likes to do the work quietly and just gently leave a footprint behind. That part where you said, “shine my light in the little corners I find myself”.Yes! That’s exactly it. I don’t need to light up the whole stadium, I just want to be a candle in someone's dark.

And you’re right. Maybe the fear of fame shouldn’t scare me if it comes as a byproduct of impact. I guess I need to learn to receive it with grace and boundaries. Just that, finding that balance in the social media world can be difficult.

Also, thank you so much for reminding me that being that big sister is actually a gift I shouldn't downplay 💕

Sending love and light! And thank you again for such kind words, you've made my night.

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Yeah, it's okay to embrace it, to a certain degree it's healthy and I am very sure you know how to digest the unhealthy attention and avoid those.
And yes you don't have to light up an entire stadium, just the seemingly small sparks in people's life is all you need for people like us that wants to hide from the spotlight.

Truly being a big sis is a gift but comes with so much responsibilities lol.
Sometimes I get overjoyed that I gave my sister a chance of coming first lol.
You will do just fine.
Do have a beautiful new week!

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Sometimes I get overjoyed that I gave my sister a chance of coming first lol.

😂😂 I can imagine that!
Yes, it is a blessing indeed.

Thank you. Do have a lovely week yourself.

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Hello there Wesphilbin!
It's has been my pleasure to explore and read from people.
And oh, it's a habit of mine, I love to leave people thoughtful responses because I know just how it feels to share your ideas, experiences and put your story out there yet it seems like no one is reading them.
And I honestly love to connect with people, try to feel what they felt, get immersed in their stories, this way I could understand them better and I can't do all of these and not leave them my thoughts, it's encouraging and it's the little I can contribute to them.

It's like saying; I see you, I understand you, well done!

I understand how busy life can get, I have a fair share of that too but I step in here whenever I can and read a few posts I can so it's my pleasure, hopefully I get to contribute to this community as well.
I am still new to the platform, few more weeks to be a month old here so I am taking my time to understand each community here before making a move.
Thanks again for your kind words, it means alot to me.

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