How Financial Instability Kill Your Sexualities

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This has been some battle or obstacles many are facing these days and yes i can write something on this article just because i only believe that what i must to write or tell people i should have witness it or pass through it so i wont be just exergirating or telling people the gold is yellow while i never even see a fake one before talkless of seeing the real and raw once.

I will like to explain some situation in which am passing through and i won't hesitate to get or have more knowledge because i share this just to have some knowledge and experience from my fellow people. Its just that i have been so romantic which i knew that myself before but lately now i find myself losing the love or feelings for others more especially for other gender and even though i find myself introvert.

Even though what really trigger my writing is that my friend girlfriend came to pay me a visit and they were like how far guy what about your lady and i was like i dont have any and my friends girlfriend said to me, i will get you one, but i was like im not that financially stable to think or have any feelings and makes me tells my friend i don't think i can do what your babe is talking all about. And he asked me why i said i cant even talk to any of them because im financial imbalance right now.

Been in a financial instability can kill some sexual part in you because when we all determine for the best for ourselve and never even think if what tomorrow will brings can lead to that and mind you when this happen you become so dumb to like the other gender and what you keep pursuing is how to be stable financially. But i believe in this because financial is the backbone of most everything and when youre financially imbalances for yourself, i always find it difficult to welcome a family despite of having a visitor.

You feel shamed or embaraced when your financial instability is poor because whenever they so called relationship partner demand what she really likes most and you cant able to afford it for her and later you realise she get it without your knowing can makes you feel insecure in the relationship with her no more if you don't have a deep trust in yourself before you find yourself incompetent in the relationship.

What money will cause in the life of people nowadays i dont think we can able to solve it finish, because when you think of been in a relationship, do you ever think of the financial aspects, and have you ever ask yourself am i competent or capable to be in a relationship with my earning.

I think the only way to overcome this issue is by pulling up everytime and never let your financial situation brings you down in life but instead of been allowing that to kick off your generousity, you just keep moving and pulling up everytime and never think its all or its the end because i do believe the dive 🎲🎲 are still rolling and when you sell off your personality before you ascertain the stability of finance, it can be difficult afterwards to diversify back your personality.

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