Single By Choice, Investing In Me First// LOH Contest #264.

Good day charming, beautiful, exceptional, alluring ladies in the building ✌️, I don't just know but there's a different kind of energy today so bare with me as I pour it out, it's another week and we have with us two tempting topics so for this prompt I would be participating on the contest topic which says1️⃣ What’s one big decision you made recently that changed something in your life.

We make decisions always but there's atleast this one decision that marks it all, or that seems like a major one in your life and sometimes before making those decisions we seek for advice or counsel so as to not make the wrong decision, so for today I won't just be sharing any other little decisions I did but a remarkable one that I didn't know it was possible to achieve.

As a lady you would agree with me that there's this expectation every other youth around you will be having that you must be in a relationship, I use to hear this from guys always that no girl is single so you see this is the kind of picture they have already painted in their live so when someone is single they make heist to enter into another relationship or you would see a lady dating a guy presently but also has her next boyfriend in mind that she would be with after this break up.

This decision I made wasn't something I planned for years, I took the decision to abstain from any relationship for now not because of my parents or because I don't think love exists but because I want to invest in me now and the rest can come later, I want to invest in my growth and my career, those loves, sacrifices, time and resources I choose to invest them on me now and watch me grow, I want to be the dream of my own dream man.

Am not saying relationship is not right now, am not saying if you are in it now you don't know what you are doing but what am saying is that I decided to invest all those love, affections, resources and time on me now than jumping from one man to another loosing alot. This decision I made has shaped me both in school and at home which I have been seeing the impact on me and I pray that all after all these sacrifices I would achieve my heart desires at the end. It is never easy when ever one makes a decision because it's at that time that all sort of temptation will start coming your way like a magnet, but by the grace of God I daily depend on Him to pass through them without them passing through me.

I have made alot of decisions these past few years but this decision of has been remarkably great, thank you so much for sharing in this with me, I can't thank you enough, have a wonderful week ahead.

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