Do Not Eagerly Settle For Less, Guilty As Charged>> Hive-Reachout Weekly Prompt 86.

In simple words what an average class means is not the lower class, not the higher class but just in the middle class, not overly comfortable, not uncomfortable but just comfortable so if someone says they are of the middle class it's safe to say that they are not struggling financially but also wealth, to start with myself I come from a middle class family and sometimes we often see it as "thank God I am better than somebody" so today I would be sharing with you all some of the likely factors that have hindered status like us from going forward.

Fate?? Nah... I wouldn't want us to put this on fate because sometimes we give fate the leverage to position us in places where we find ourselves for instance a man who is too lazy to work that he don't go to work everyday there by putting less effort in working hard which makes him get little income and little or no progression in that field of work, so would you also say it's fate that kept him in that same position that he is because to me if he had worked hard he would be in the same position he was in five or ten years ago, it's fair to say that fate most times have little or nothing to do with where you have chosen to remain in.

But if you say negligence and ignorance I would say that fits in well in most cases because most atimes it's because we are ignorant of what to do inorder to upgrade or be better at what we do, and it also can be due to the lack of no pushing factors around us to warrant us to do better, because there's nothing and no one around you that makes you to want to do better that's why sometimes we are reluctant to do better, for instance if am an only daughter and I practically don't have any sense of fashion I definitely would be wearing just anything I see as cloth not minding if it fits or is conflicting with colours but if I have an elder sister who is more exposed than I am it's definite that I would be dressing smarter and better.

So in summary what has hindered most people from moving forward is either that fear of leaving one's comfort zone, always procrastinating opportunities, looking at the struggles pains and sacrifice that leads to the upgrade which brings discouragement, holding onto to practices or beliefs that has long existed and obviously limited others by excelling, the idea that everything is vanity so why struggle so much when one day you will leave all this behind because even me am guilty of this kind of ideology sometimes.

So staying average is mostly by choice that's why you hear some people say they are breaking out from the patterns of their Father's house, so please take this for free "do not settle for less, the best is yet to come"

I love you guys and thank you for your time.

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