RE: Sam's Hangout #73- “CHOOSING A PARTNER”
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Before getting married I always prayed to God for these three qualities;
1, kindness, 2, respect 3, God fearing.
And I wasn't willing to compromise these qualities for anything because aside love, those qualities would help the marriage to keep going even when we have issues.
I have always wanted a partner who respect me and my family and that's why I always pay attention to how he treats his family especially his mom. If he loves me so much and he isn't treating his own family well I wouldn't accept him. I had called off a relationship then because the guy wasn't talking to his mom for over three months, he stopped talking to her because she used his money to get household stuff instead of the land he wanted to buy.likeee that's not enough reason for me, he would treat me same way. It shows how value money more than the relationship he shares with his mom.
In all, if you are looking for a spouse watch the way they treat their family.
@luchyl what do you think about this question?
Your thinking pretty as your face. Watin I gain if he no have these three. Abeg, collect your trophy 🏆🤗
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Add this one join.
Awwwnnnn this got me blushing.
These qualities are essential.
That respect should be mutual.
Valid.
That's true, respect is reciprocal.
Good morning, Goodysam.
Hey @justfavour how are you doing today?
Good morning.
Do you have any party or Date today?
This is good. The 3 aforementioned qualities are great if it can be found in one man. Kindness is one of the fruits expected of children of God. It's a virtue and its importance cannot be over emphasized.
Respect is a very good attribute although people who show respect are sometimes being taken for granted.
@goodysam
Well it all depends on individual, but nobody in his or her right senses would take for granted someone who respects them.
Respect is a fundamental right of an healthy relationship.
The phrase in his or her right senses is the main thing.
Some people do not act in their right senses.
The points you highlighted are very essential in marriage. Nice take.
I'm always for kindness and can't flow with anyone, whether male or female who cannot show it.
Every individual, old or young, deserves respect. You can't command respect, as a man, when you don't show it to others. It won't work.
Any man who loves God and has the fear of God in him is a blessing to his family, and they'll enjoy the goodness of the Lord.
!BBH
I agree with you o. A man who treats his family members badly will in turn treat his wife and kids badly. Marriage is not only based on love o. We need to shine our eyes