Can I ask A Guy out On A Date? Read To find out.

We have be flirting with each other for sometime now, he is my kind of man and I noticed be is into me and am into him too, but he still hasn't officially asked me out.

Should I ask him out instead?
Well I have doubt about the out come of my actions "so many what if?"
Looking at it form two different point of view.

If after scrutinizing my self and see that I can take what ever comes out of it emotionally I will ask the guy out on a date.

And yes I would do that face to face if he happens to be a mature, responsible and reasonable fellow I will gladly ask him out.

First, most guys love it when a lady takes the initiative to ask them out, they term it " confidence". I totally agree that's confidence and this is the 21 century and everyone is owning up to what they are and what they can do.

These days women call the shot in a relationship, they know if it would lead to something better or not. That's why they say the women her home builders.

Sometimes men feel insecure around some women due to their achievements, personality and even degree and feels she might not be interested in them, but those ladies are and yes it's Okey to ask the guy out if he fits your test.

On a second thought, I wouldn't ask a guy out on a date for obvious reasons. I'm emotional and I get frustrated when am disappointed or refused ( no woman does). If I successfully ask him out on a date he might turn me down and that would break my ego and my confidence.
Ok let's scratch that nagative part out, I ask him out and he accepts that means I would have to put more effort to make the relationship work because he might be too relax and the feelings might not be mutual.

Or he might tell his friends about it and make a joke out of it, or he might be in a relationship already and I'm just misunderstanding his actions.
The financial aspects of it might make me not ask a guy out on a date, what if what he order for isn't what I can afford or pay for.

An experience
A friend of mine asked a guy out on a date and she was almost loose her self confidence and esteem.

The guy told it to his friends and they tagged her cheap and desperate.

Meanwhile he was the first to show her some green light and she felt maybe he was shy to ask her out and so she took the initiative.He bluntly refused her and told her he was in a relationship already.

She was crushed, sad and frustrated she had to relocate because the shame was to much and almost everyone was aware of what she did.

So yes I will ask a guy out on a date only if he is matured , reasonable and very confidential.