The Supporting System Of Friendship.

Problems...problems...problems... We are all having our own shares of life problem that we are struggling to solve, how are we then going to accept the problems of others thinking we can solve them.

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Friendship is all about having each others back, helping and assisting the others. But is it a good friendship again when you start adding up problems for each others.

Life is already giving you more problems, personal issues are much to deal with. If you have a friend it is not advisable to carry your problems over to their live again, because you might seen as one of their problems if you do so.

I don't really know how this friendship of a thing works entirely, but for me you should not always see your friend as a problem solver or struggling mate, they should be a helping mate.

Before revealing your problems to your friend, try to solve it yourself first, fix things, get your life in the right order. No one would want to leave their problems and solving others, but people are always willing to help, you have to always seek for help and problem solving so you don't go around becoming an addition problem to others.

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Friendships will get better, when there is help and support for each other and not when there is problem offloading for each other.

I write with good intentions, and I come in peace, although this post is inspired by a personal experience, more of a lesson that I learned.

I appreciate you for your time.