Reflecting and Learning from My Past

Reminiscing on my past I really wonder why I did what I did.
Some of my past actions makes me unhappy while some left lessons for me to learn.
One out of many things I did in the past, makes me want to beat myself or puke each time i remember it, but at the same time it came with it lessons.

I fell in love with someone who never loved me, the feelings was just mutual but I didn't see it that way, all i wanted was to love and to be loved in return. From that experience i learnt lessons;

1. Taking any decision without involving God is a disaster heading somewhere to explode.

2. Knowing your purpose on time will save you a whole lot of stress and mistakes. Know your purpose and hold it tight and it will help you decide whom you want to mingle or settle with.

3. A man knows what he wants, no matter how indecisive it may seem he is, he will settle with what is in his heart and your tears or opinion can't change that.

4. Never assume someone(a man)loves or want you in their life, if they haven't openly said it to you, you'd be surprised that you are just in relationship with your dear self.( Story of my life 🤦🤦)

5. Appreciate yourself(know your worth) so much that you won't settle for less. Yeah low self esteem could make you wait for people's approval and this could make you see yourself less such that you opt to be begging people for love or validation.

6. Love God.

7. Love yourself.

8. Love God.

9. Take yourself out to trips, vacation, date etc.

10. Invest in yourself

11. Love yourself.

12. Love God and love yourself for it's pertinent.

I remain
#Godaddict

A teacher, a teens coach, mobile photographer, minstrel, a writer and a wife to be✌️✌️💃💃

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Much love

Ps:- The picture is that of my humble self, taken with my phone Tecno Camon 18 ✌️✌️