Wedding Event: Things i detest in weddings.

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Almost everyone loves attending weddings and I am one of them especially when I have to do the Bridesmaid duties. Though at some point I started losing interest in going for weddings recently because of my tight schedules. Weddings are always an interesting event for anyone to attend. A Lot of things happen in weddings that I am particularly not fond of and these are things I do watch out for and hope to have a good way of doing it differently from what I see when I will be having my own wedding.

The issue of people coming from far distances to a wedding staying for both the first part of the church wedding till the reception part and you know they will be hungry and tired the vibes will not be there anymore. I really detest long weddings. At some point I do think of why a wedding should last till about 5pm. I do not intend to repeat the same thing. I believe that most people coming for the wedding had other things to have attended to but out of love came and should not be kept so long in one wedding. So definitely I will love to have a short wedding but classy and vibrant. So that people can leave early and attend to other things.

Another thing I am particularly not fond of is the issue of food sharing. This problem keeps happening at almost all the weddings I have attended. You will see the issue of having close to 200 plus attending a wedding event and two to three people will be serving food and most people coming to that event will end up not eating and I do wonder why it should be so. Weddings are a celebration and with celebrating food is involved. Someone like me who cannot resist wedding rice so I dress up going to a wedding and I don't eat doesn't really go well with me. So I am really particular about changing this. I hope to put certain people in places to handle the food sharing to aid fast sharing and making sure a lot of people attending my wedding event have had something to eat.

Lastly, One of the things I am not fond of is the issue of feeding the couple. I think that particular act is a show of deceit. Why is it because it only happens there and after there it doesn't happen again. I do not intend to do something I know I will not do again. Imagine a woman kneeling down to feed the man when she knows that she will not be kneeling to feed the man after the wedding. So I just feel those are actually not necessary and should not be inclusive in a wedding event. I can only do something I know that after the wedding probably I will always do. Especially the kissing of the bride and groom activity because I know I will not allow my husbands lips to rest, not the fake feeding activity.

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