Medical Compatibility: A Necessity for Would be Couples.

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Medical compatibility is one thing people take carelessly and they fail to check this while in a relationship or even in the early stage of the relationship. Checking of Medical Compatibility is a very necessary thing that should be done in the early stage of a relationship or when you both notice that you want more even before you start developing deep feelings for each other.

Most couples have entered into a marriage they have regretted because they either failed to check their Medical compatibility and with this i mean checking for Genotype and Blood Group to be sure you are both medically fit to marry and some even after checking at the wrong time and they are told that they are not medically fit they find it difficult to separate ways and most even end up marrying themselves against medical rules.

As a medical practitioner i have seen so many cases of partners finding out they're are not medically fit after the Man has proposed to her already before they were either advised to go check for compatibility and when they come to get tested and they are now aware they are medically incompatible you will hear things like God will see us through, we have faith and i love her or him so much and that Love matters. Sir and Ma before you start brooding feelings for each other check for medical compatibility. You will be doing yourself the honour and saving yourself the stress you will encounter later in marriage when you end up marrying someone you are not medically fit with.

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The Advice i would give to lovers in this situation is that

Before you fall in Love, while you guys start planning a future together, you both should consider getting tested to check if you both are medically compatible. This will help save you from emotional distress, feelings of guilt and regrets, it will help avoid unintended health consequences, such as passing genetic disorders to your offspring which will result in financial burdens due to unforeseen health issues.

When do you think is the right time for lovers to check their medical compatibility?

I will say the early stage of the relationship should always be the talking stage to talk about everything including our health. Alot of people tend to avoid this particular communication and they end up being surprised or shocked later. Most people get so carried away in the early stage of relationship and forgetting the main thing they should get to know about. For me once we start talking after a week and were still talking i will have to ask about your medical conditions and if i get to know that you're not really conversant with them then the next thing is that you will see me getting your samples to make sure i know if what is about to start will stand firm abi e go fall so i dont even waste emotions. So before you start feeling butterflies in your bellies please check for a compatibility test to be on the safe side so you won't get hurt or try to enter into a marriage you will regret because you have spent 4-5yrs of your lives together and would not want to let go.

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