RE: The Attitude of Respect
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As he was speaking, I respectfully cut him short
What you did was not respectful, it was rude and hubristic.
What it entails is that we respect whoever it is that we come across regardless of age difference or position
Wrong. Respect is earned, not a right. And besides, you did not respect that other person at all, you selfishly cut him off.
That man failed to understand that,
Maybe you failed to understand that the elderly man simply wanted some company, someone to talk to as he is lonely. Maybe you should have made more of an attempt to be personable and patient and to hear him out rather than put your needs above his. You're selfish.
they also feel the need to speak to them as they please
And yet you spoke to him as you please without any thought to his feelings or motivation...you didn't even have the courtesy to let him finish speaking. You're ill-mannered.
I feel that we do not need to seek respect to get it
So you want people to respect you without even doing anything to deserve it? Of course a person needs to seek respect and they do that in many ways including how they treat others around them.
no one deserves to be spoken to in a manner that is degrading or undeserving
And yet, you brutally cut of a person as he was speaking which he probably didn't deserve.
they must not be in the attitude of disrespecting others
But it's ok for you to disrespect others.
You look like you're about 11 years old...maybe you should go and learn about life before you start dictating about it to others, and while you're there, learn some manners as well. I feel like you have none.
🤔 creo que hay mejores maneras de transmitir tu desacuerdo. La idea en este espacio es (según creo) ayudar a otros a crecer, no lapidarlos. Y para eso se necesita tacto. En mi opinión, sería bueno que trabajaras en eso.
Quizás preguntas de reflexión harían que tú mensaje fuese más preciso y de impacto. Repito: es mi opinión.
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Que curioso no? 🤔
Ni un simple bot respondería sin argumentos a un comentario solo con palabras sin sentido.
Muy profunda tu reflexión. Pensaré en ello.
Oh! Cierto. Se me olvidaba que no puedo porque es solo un texto de relleno para ofimática.
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Thank you for being blunt with me @galenkp...
This particular one caught my attention, I probably was not attentive enough. I have learnt, and I will certainly do better next time...
You must also consider the fact that the context was not well captured in my writing. I already sensed that I would probably get a long scolding from the man, given that I was not the first person he had spoken to, and I needed to be fast as I had another destination to be at in an hour. On getting to the security office where I was supposed to sign in before entering the school premises, I saw the elderly man with the principal and the admin head; an unusual setting. In my presence, he confirmed from the principal whether or not I was a teacher before turning to me. I do not consider my actions towards him as being disrespectful, at least not in that spot. I was as polite as possible, and I was in a hurry too. That notwithstanding, I do not completely rule out the fact that I might have been wrong.
I agree with you @galenkp, but respect at the lowest level can be directly synonymous to being polite, and I think everyone should be polite to one another. The kind of respect that should be earned should be at the level of admiration. I might be wrong, but this is the way I understand life.
And you think cutting him off was polite?
I think not.
Now it depends on how you understand the term respect; as for me, I was polite, and I was respectful too. I do not expect you to completely understand since you were not in the scene, but when I tell you that that man was going to scold me, I was certain of that. I simply had to leave that place as fast as I should if must meet up with my activities for the day, and that was what I simply did.
Or would you prefer me hearing the long sermon he had for me rather than attending to my job? Like I told, I had to be in another destination in an hour...