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Hello Hive Learners friends, everyone

It's nice to be able to meet again in this ordinary strong community, how are you all doing, hopefully it's okay and of course at the beginning of the year I hope it's always fun, well friends, today I'm very happy and really want to tell you about our topic today, which is even when it's toxic, in the life of a family that we live in, of course there are some individuals that we must maintain so that the relationship between husband and wife is not toxic, Depending on how we deal with it, indeed this case does not only occur in the family, it can happen with friends, friends or friends, when we talk about human relationships that are clearly very close to social or more specifically by strengthening the bond of brotherhood, but we do not realize that there is one poison point that makes this relationship messy.

I want to tell you a little about toxic relationships that many people think that if one of their partners is poisonous, it is certainly easier to draw a conclusion that breaks off the relationship between the two or separates is the best way, a stranger can talk with what comes out of his mouth, because it is not that easy a decision to take, Like one of the examples I want to tell you today, where I have one of my cousin's younger brothers who is a boy, he is married and already has children, but there is one of the problems that is currently happening between the two, it happens that my cousin even though he is married but he still likes to go out with his girl friends at night.

Seeing that their relationship may not be going well, but there is a slight rift that occurred, I always advise her not to have a big case, my cousin in front of me always listens to my talk, but she doesn't do it, to be honest I feel sorry for her wife who cries every day thinking about her husband, the people around her give advice to leave her, Maybe it would be better, I don't think this woman needs food and snacks for herself and for her child, because she is a housewife whose finances are 100% dependent on her husband, maybe I think in this case there is a solution so that there is no separation, and there are many people out there who choose to survive rather than have to leave each other. Personally, I prefer to stick with this case.

Although I always advise my cousin that it is clear that I still keep our relationship okay, if this case continues to increase, of course we must prevent it as soon as possible with various ways we can to reduce the number so that the toxic relationship has a way out, only a few people in my opinion leave their partner from 100%, only 5% leave, the others still survive even though they are sick, A toxic relationship still has a way out if one of the partners is willing to give in, and the emotions between the two do not rise equally.

There are some more important things that they have to think about in the future than having to leave, school children need snacks, going to the market needs money, going to the invitation has to buy gifts, it's that easy, that's the stranger who always likes to interfere in toxic relationship problems, not necessarily the person is good, sometimes on the contrary, they sometimes like to see one of the couples separate, They can laugh cheerfully, to be honest I personally 100% disagree, there are many other ways to prevent or to find a solution.

Thank you very much to all of you who have taken a little time to read this post of mine, hopefully it can be useful for all of us.

Greetings from me @furkanmamplam

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You are right that a toxic relationship still has a way out if the partners are ready to give in but many times, it doesn't happen that way until something drastic happens leaving one of the partners hurt in the end, most times, it leads to something worse.

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It depends on how each partner is, if someone wants to change, of course the relationship will end peacefully, I think so.

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