Embracing Surrogacy: A Path to Parenthood in the Modern Age

I used to wonder why some couples celebrate 10, 20, 30, or even 40 years of marriage while facing the battle of childlessness, especially when there are numerous options available today. It's important to remember that it is only those who wear the shoes that truly know where they pinch. However, if things like surrogacy were in vogue in those days, nobody would remain childless. Gone are those days!

To be childless is not for the faint-hearted, and I use this opportunity to pray for all the trying-to-conceive (TTC) mothers around the world, may God remember you as He did for Hannah, in Jesus' Name, Amen🙏 You are lucky, if you can get pregnant immediately after you say I DO It has not been easy for some set of people. May God heal their hearts🙏

So, what is surrogacy? Surrogacy is a reproductive arrangement in which a woman agrees to carry and give birth to a child for another person or couple. There are different ways through which surrogacy can be accomplished:

1. Traditional Surrogacy where the surrogate is also the egg donor.
2. Gestational Surrogacy where the surrogate carries an embryo created through in vitro fertilization (IVF).
   In this case, it is advisable to choose wisely.

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Numerous celebrities have shared their journey through surrogacy, providing hope and inspiration to others who may be suffering in silence. For instance, Nancy Umeh recently welcomed her baby daughter, who is now three months old, and she is happily breastfeeding her; oh my God, technology is a life safer👍

Note: That's not her first child, but she decided to opt in for surrogacy due to stories surrounding her pregnancy journey. You can follow her on Facebook for more light. She is the only one who is so real in this surrogacy journey. In this digital age, stories like hers remind us that the era of remaining childless is fading. Others, like Ini Edo and Biola Adebayo, have also embraced this path.

I have a neighbor who chose surrogacy, and while many people are curious about when she became pregnant and gave birth, she remains unbothered by their questions, instead radiating happiness for having a child of her own, thanks to the understanding partner by her side. I couldn't be happier for her🤗🤗 If my bosom friend can also go for surrogacy if not money, it would be better. She needs to be happy!

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As for me, would I consider surrogacy? Absolutely! I am a cesarean section (CS) mom to two precious jewels and want more children, two or more. I love babies👌However, I'm scared about experiencing pregnancy and delivery again. Therefore, if I desire more kids, surrogacy seems to be the best option, and I plan to explore it when the time is right. With all the testimonies I've heard and seen, it offers a hopeful solution for anyone longing for the joy of parenthood, thereby eliminating the shadow of childlessness.

But is surrogacy ethical? Yes, it can be, provided that there is a consent form from both parties. It is crucial that both parties do not know each other and that there is no form of familiarity to ensure a respectful arrangement.

Should traditional methods of childbearing be abandoned in favor of surrogacy? No, rather, it should be approached with caution and a commitment to uphold ethical standards. Informed consent must be obtained from all parties involved.

I will continue to advocate for surrogacy because I believe every family deserves to experience the joy of parenthood. Nobody should die in ignorance!

The joy of every marriage is to have children surrounding their table

My participation in the #hivelearners community contest on edition two titled SURROGACY

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Thank you for reading 💕💕