Toxic Relationship That Almost Destroyed My Life
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Talking about a toxic relationship, yes some of us has on one occasion be in a relationship that has been a prayer request, praying for deliverance from that relationship, I will like to take you in this sequence.
Have you ever been in a toxic relationship?
Yes, many have been in one relationship or the other that has really been so burdensome, hmmm, that kind of relationship is really pain in the ass, that kind of relationship is so frustrating it can even lead one to sleepless night, is like nightmares, I can't stand it, is the kind of relationship that you will ask God not to allow your enemy to experience such.
Mine is with a friend, this guy has been a friend for some years, this guy has been a toxic in my life, I don't like people that are not straightforward, and dubious people, the only hang around because of what they will have from you, such people are disastrous to humanity.
One day because of that friend of mine attitude my two brothers fought each other it was really embarrassing, you know when you have friends that have bad character you would be in for trouble, that is why I hardly make friends just because of that one friend, that has caused be grief in my home, this guy borrowed money from me and couldn't returned it to me, whatever I borrow him I won't see it again because of his carelessness, he can be that annoying, I don't like men that talk too much, but this guy is a talkative, he can talk as if he is a woman, know matter I fran at him he will till be come to my house.
How did you manage to get out of there?
Yes, any relationship that I don't enjoy I don't force myself to it, what I did is that I aways keep myself busy, each time he comes around I don't give him like I usually does, or I won't be around, so, sometime when he comes around he will only be talking to my wife or mother, when he keeps coming but couldn't have my attention after some time stop coming, I don't go to his house, because normally sometimes he will passed the night in my house, and I don't have enough space in my house.
And what did the experience teach you about yourself?
Yes, in this relationship is that I noticed the kind of trust I always have on people even if is my first contact with them, I learned not to trust people to the point where I will releasemy valuables.
I also learned to study people before opening my heart for any person, I learned that being friendly is a must but making them your friends is a choice, some people don't deserve your friendship, you must be careful in picking your friends.
Conclusion
I have never been to police station in my life but because of this person, I entered the station to bail him for about two occasions I went there to bail him, so, when it comes friends be wise in choosing your friends, dont just open your heart for everyone be wise, relationship is a choice not a must, I chose people I want to hang with.
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You are right in saying that we need to be wise in our relationships. They may be extremely destructive at times.