The Power of Forgiveness
It does not seem so simple as it appears , yet it is also one of the most important aspect of freeing ourselves.
We will definitely get hurt at some point in time, it could be words said to us, betrayal, or action that cuts deep into us. When such things happen to us , it feels easier to hold up to anger than letting it go. But in reality , forgiveness has nothing to do with the other person , it is about you and the peace that you truly deserve.
When we refuse to forgive, we carry heavy emotional weight. Anger, resentment, and bitterness sit in the heart and slowly drain our energy.
See it as drinking poison and then hope that another person will have to suffer from the effect. Our mood, health and relationship are effected by this tension Forgiveness lightens that load and gives us the space to breathe again.
It’s important and very neccessary that we remember that forgiving someone does not mean that we agree or believe that what they did to us is okay.
I am not saying that you should allow them hurt you again, But what i am trying to say is that Forgiveness simply means deciding that the pain no longer gets to control your life. You take back your power when you choose peace over anger.
Relationships can also be healed by forgiveness, we are bound to make mistakes as humans , nobody is perfect , so when you choose to forgive , you are creating room for understanding and reconciliation.
things may or may never go back to how they were, finding closure and inner calm is something that you have to do.
This has to do with admitting and accepting your flaws, allowing yourself to grow by learning from them.
In the end, forgiveness is a gift you give to yourself. It doesn’t erase what happened, but it changes how you carry it. Instead of chains, you walk lighter. Instead of bitterness, you carry peace.
To Choose forgiveness is not as simple as it is said, but it definitely worth it. The door to healing,joy, and a stronger heart are being opened by forgiveness
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