How to Enjoy Online Friendships Without Losing Yourself

Let’s be honest, our relationships these days are mostly digital. We text more than we talk, we bond over memes, and sometimes our closest friends are people we’ve never even met in real life. It’s wild, but that’s just how life works now. The digital world makes it easier to stay connected and also makes relationships trickier. People get too attached easily, let’s not even talk about ghosting.

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How I keep my online relationships from being toxic

Not Everyone Deserves Unlimited Access To Me:- There was a time when I’d reply to messages the second they popped up. Even if I was exhausted, even if I wasn’t in the mood, I felt like I had to respond but later I realized I don’t owe anyone 24/7 availability. So now, if I don’t feel like talking, I don’t. If someone constantly needs my attention or makes me feel drained, I distance myself. And that’s okay. My time and energy are mine. I decide who gets access to me and when.

I Don’t Get Too Comfortable easily:- Have you ever met someone online, and within days, they felt like your long-lost twin? The vibe is perfect, the chats are endless, and before you know it, you’re spilling your entire life story. I’ve been there.

But I’ve also learned that just because someone feels trustworthy doesn’t mean they are. Some people are great at pretending. Others might not have bad intentions, but oversharing too soon can create emotional attachments that aren’t always healthy. I always take my time to know people gradually. Not every online connection has to become deep right away.

I always watch For Red Flags:- One time, I had an online friend who would get mad if I didn’t respond within an hour. At first, I thought, “Wow, they value our friendship.” But over time, it felt suffocating. If a relationship, digital or not starts feeling like an obligation instead of something enjoyable, it’s probably not healthy.

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Balance Online And Offline Life:- It’s easy to get so caught up in digital relationships that you start neglecting real life. I’ve had days where I spent hours texting or scrolling through social media while ignoring the people around me. As much as I love online friendships, I realized that I still need fresh air and face-to-face conversations, this habit nearly ended my long-term relationship with my fiance because I was too attached to an online friend, so I learn how to balance both online and offline.

Know When to Let Go:- Not every digital relationship is meant to last. Some people are only meant to be in your life for a season. If a friendship starts feeling one-sided, toxic, or just doesn’t align with your energy anymore, it’s okay to let it go. Unfollowing, muting, or even blocking isn’t always about drama, it’s about peace. I have many friends who I have let go, it is not about keeping grudges, I feel I should let the relationship fade away for some reason.

Online relationships can be amazing. They’ve introduced me to incredible people, deep conversations, and friendships I never expected. A healthy relationship digital or real should make you feel good not otherwise. It should add value to your life, not drain it.

This is my response to today's episode of hive-learners community prompt of #hl-w157e3 which the topic is tagged DIGITAL RELATIONSHIP

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I actually like your blog. Something got me;

I’ve had days where I spent hours texting or scrolling through social media while ignoring the people around me

I think this is another reason why i pay less attention to people around me.

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Today, the era of mobile phones has come, everyone is busy with their own lives and now we don't meet many people and we talk to friends only on mobile phones, so this is the benefit of it. Just like in a relationship, when something bad happens to each other, then there is trouble, but this doesn't happen online, we keep talking to each other.

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