Feminity; the greatness of a woman #216

The issue of feminity is one that I believe interests me the most on Earth. When I talk about feminity I don't mean just the issues of gender privileges, feminism and so on. I mean talking about the idea of knowing what you should accept and decline as a lady.

I love to discuss this with the younger females and even the male gender because I believe it's a high time everyone get into this topic.
Coming from the part of the world where there are many controversial believes about the girl child, it hurts to see young girls directly walking into a trap that is disguised as a blessing.
I come from a society where women are subdued alot and most times this iss caused by the fact that financially the man has the upper hand.

I want to scream to the girls the importance of making their own money, I want to make young girls understand the importance of building themselves since this would go a long way in saving them from being bullied in the future. It hurts me when I see a female going through so many things in a marriage and when asked why she is still there you discover she is there because she is scared that of she leaves, she can't cater for the children because she doesn't have a stable source of income.

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I want to preach and tell the young girls why it's important to take decisions for yourself and not to please a certain guy in the future. Please love yourself. If you want to loose weight let it because it would make you happier and not because a certain guys likes guys with slimmer frame. This should also apply to when you are picking a dress and so many other things.
I want to speak about feminity not because I want to push the females to rebellion, I want to speak about the female because I need them to understand what they are made of and also understand how powerful and great they are.

This topic is so important to me that I can spend a whole week talking about it because it hurts to see a young lady unintentionally walking towards her own doom .