WALK AWAY IF NECESSARY...
Toxicity in relationships is no doubt on the rise in this generation of ours. Unfortunately, the effects has being overemphasized with little attention on the things that begets it. In as much as we emphasize on the effects of these unhealthy relationships, it of great importance that we do everything in our power to avoid entering into one.
TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS CAN BE AVOIDED
It is of great importance that we tell ourselves the truth by paying close attention to red flags in relationships. It is most likely the case that those who are in toxic relationships sees it before it finally gets out of hand. I am simply of the opinion that love should be looked out for in any relationship, and if love is lacking, then the relationship is unhealthy. Any other characteristic of a good relationship can as a matter of fact be regarded as that which love brings. Relationships can only be toxic when there is no love.
It is not always the case that toxic relationships come with physical abuse. It can be void of abuse but yet toxic, and it can be caused by either gender. Beyond being abused physically, there are so many other unhealthy treatment that can be experienced in a toxic relationship. It is important then that partners at the earliest stage of a relationship look out for these toxic behavior and get rid of them if possible. If it be the case that it cannot be gotten rid of, then they must go their separate ways early enough.
It must not be the case that partners go their separate ways in their quest to avoid toxicity in relationships. I am of the opinion that some toxicity are built over time by the partners themselves. As a matter of fact, going your separate ways in such situation would be same as destroying what you have built by your own hands. In such a situation, always try to make things work, but when it eventually fails to work, ensure that you are not the reason behind the breakup.
WALK AWAY WHEN NECESSARY
Given how much the effects of toxic relationship has been emphasized, it has obviously been made known to most. I would not wish anyone the pains that comes along with being with the wrong person. You must walk away then and on time. The longer you stay, the later it become. Do not ignore or accommodate the red flags, just act on them and act fast. Most people are in toxic relationships today simply because they either ignored the red flags or assumed that they will go away with time. Unfortunately, red flags only magnifies with time. It's either you are ready to live with it or you let go, never assume it will go away someday. No matter how much love you have for a partner, it might not end well if he or she is unable to reciprocate the love.
CONCLUSION
Many relationships go to ruin simply because partners choose to ignore red flags. As a matter of fact, they end up beginning what they may not finish. Try as much as possible not to fall victim of that. On the other hand, do not let a good relationship go to ruin over unnecessary thing. Do not bring about toxicity in your relationship with your own hands. Ensure that the love with which you began remain intact and do not begin at all if there is no love. Love for me is the foundation of any relationship.
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