RED FLAGS

8 days ago

Love is a beautiful thing, at least I have come to realise that myself. I can only imagine the challenges our grandparents faced in arranged marriages, where love was not a factor. If I may opine, love should be the foundation of any relationship; if it is lacking, then perhaps that relationship should be reevaluated.

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To experience true love is the desire of every individual, and those who are trapped in a lifestyle that offers the opposite suffer immensely from depression. In most cases, it is the belief 'for better or for worse' that traps victims in a state of lovelessness. On the other hand, if decisions were made correctly from the start, things would never deteriorate to that point. The vow 'for better or for worse' is never supposed to bring about love, but to strengthen that which already exists.

Although I have not conducted thorough research, I think that this generation experiences more breakups than any previous generation. So many factors must have contributed to it, but the fact that people fail to make the right decision before taking the vows strikes me as the most prominent. Where I come from, it was the case that many partners did not have the liberty to choose their suitors (mostly the ladies), but it is no longer the case, and this generation certainly does not have that as an excuse. I see it that people do not have reasons to get into a relationship that is void of love in this generation of ours, but I am most likely wrong in this one. People still do, and in many cases, they have their reasons.

If it is been difficult to realize what true love is, I guess the first step is to come to terms with the fact that 'love do not care'. Where I come from, the saying 'na love I go chop?' is gaining quite some ground. People have come to believe that love is not an important criterion for going into a relationship, and that is quite a problem. Some as a matter of fact feel that money an wealth is all it takes to be comfortable in a relationship. Of course, they believe that love will not put food on the table, and thus, it is probably of no importance.

I am a simple man, and I think wealth or class should be considered last while going into a relationship. It is all about being with the one who truly cares. The fact remains that we sometimes see these things, but choose to ignore. I might not have been around the world, but I am certain about my immediate society. I encounter people who completely ignores things that are supposed to be red flags in a relationship for probably money, influence or class. Sometimes, it is even the case that their own friends and family influence their decision. For me, love does not care; and if that be the case, he or she must not be rich or influential to love you. In all that you do, ensure that you do not end up with the one who does not love you. You must neither quit nor get trapped by the notion of 'for better or for worse'.

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