🌸 Ladies of Hive Contest #243: What I would like to change about myself [ES/EN]

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¡Hola queridas Damas de Hive! Espero que se encuentren todas muy bien. Mi amiga @naath me invitó al nuevo concurso semanal de la comunidad, en esta ocasión de la mano de @elizabethbit con preguntas muy ingeniosas para contestar.
Si pudieras tener cualquier animal como mascota, ¿cuál elegirías y por qué? ¿Preferirías el macho o la hembra de esa especie?
Que buena pregunta, parece fácil, pero no lo es porque soy bastante animalera, me gustan mucho los animales. Me encantaría tener varios, aunque soy consciente que nada como la libertad y vivir en su hábitat natural para los que son silvestres. Así que, después de mucho meditar, elegiré al oso panda. Amo ver videos donde aparecen estos increíbles animales, son tan bonitos, simpáticos y tiernos. Siento que tienen una inocencia especial al lado de otros osos. En los vídeos que veo se los ve un poco tontos y me río mucho con sus ocurrencias. Aparte parecen super esponjosos, ideales para abrazar y recostarse en ellos jajajaja.
Su género me resulta indistinto la verdad. A veces suelo fantasear con tener uno de esos trabajos donde me encargo de sus cuidados. No sé si sabrán pero están en peligro de extinción y en su país se esfuerzan por preservarlos de la manera más natural posible. No sé qué habrá pasado con ellos a lo largo de la historia, pero actualmente parece ser muy difícil que sobrevivan sin la ayuda humana. En fin, ojalá que nunca se extingan porque la verdad que me parecen unos seres maravillosos.

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Todos tenemos algo que nos gustaría cambiar de nosotros mismos. Puede ser algo físico, un rasgo de carácter o cualquier cosa. ¿Qué es lo único que elegirías cambiar de ti y por qué?
A decir verdad, tengo algunas cosas que me gustaría cambiar de mi aspecto físico. Pero lo que más me limita en estos momentos es la falta de seguridad. Así que me encantaría cambiar el ser insegura por tener más seguridad en la vida en general. A veces le doy 80 vueltas al asunto y no me animo a correr riesgos o salir de mi zona de confort porque me siento insegura, supongo que también es un rasgo de ansiedad y de tener miedo, una mezcla de cosas. Pero siento que si fuera más segura quizá me costaría menos animarme a dar esos pasos que dan miedo.
El tener miedo es inevitable, es una respuesta normal ante cosas que no podemos controlar y nos hacen sentir inseguros, pero su contraparte es la valentía y no puede existir uno sin el otro, hice cosas con miedo y allí fue cuando salió la valentía. Pero con la seguridad es diferente, a veces hacemos cosas porque las tenemos que hacer, pero no estamos muy seguros de haberlo hecho bien. Empezamos a dudar, nos sudan las manos, le damos vueltas al asunto 80 veces para ver dónde estuvo el fallo y nos sentimos mal porque no confiamos en nuestras capacidades. Si fuera más segura no dudaría tanto y me lanzaría a la acción incluso con miedo porque sé que al final todo saldrá bien porque confío en mí.
Así que bueno, me encantaría cambiar ese rasgo inseguro que tengo hasta en las situaciones más tontas que se me presenten. Lo bueno es que es algo que puedo mejorar con el tiempo y lograr adquirir más seguridad y confianza. Solo es cuestión de seguir trabajando duro en ello.

Bueno amigos, hasta acá mi participación al concurso semanal. Espero que les haya gustado y los invitó a participar también a todos los que me lean.
Gracias por llegar hasta acá y apoyar mi contenido.
¡Hasta la próxima!


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Hello dear Ladies of Hive! I hope you are all feeling great. My friend @naath invited me to the new weekly community quiz, this time from @elizabethbit with very witty questions to answer.
If you could have any animal for a pet, what would you choose and why? Would you prefer the male or the female animal of that species?
What a good question, it seems easy, but it's not because I'm quite an animal lover, I really like animals. I would love to have several, although I am aware that nothing like freedom and living in their natural habitat for those who are wild. So, after much meditation, I will choose the panda bear. I love watching videos where these amazing animals appear, they are so cute, cute and cuddly. I feel they have a special innocence next to other bears. In the videos I watch they look a little silly and I laugh a lot with their witticisms. Besides they look super fluffy, ideal for cuddling and lying on them hahahaha.
Their gender is indistinct to me to be honest. Sometimes I fantasize about having one of those jobs where I take care of them. I don't know if you know but they are in danger of extinction and in your country they are trying to preserve them in the most natural way possible. I don't know what has happened to them throughout history, but nowadays it seems to be very difficult for them to survive without human help. Anyway, I hope they never become extinct because I really think they are wonderful creatures.

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Todos tenemos algo que nos gustaría cambiar de nosotros mismos. Puede ser algo físico, un rasgo de carácter o cualquier cosa. ¿Qué es lo único que elegirías cambiar de ti y por qué?
To tell you the truth, I have a few things I would like to change about my physical appearance. But what limits me the most right now is my lack of confidence. So I would love to change being insecure to being more confident in life in general. Sometimes I go 80 times around the issue and I don't dare to take risks or go out of my comfort zone because I feel insecure, I guess it's also a trait of anxiety and being afraid, a mix of things. But I feel that if I were more confident maybe I would find it less difficult to take those scary steps.
Being afraid is inevitable, it is a normal response to things that we cannot control and make us feel insecure, but its counterpart is courage and one cannot exist without the other, I did things with fear and that is when courage came out. But with security it is different, sometimes we do things because we have to do them, but we are not very sure that we have done them well. We start to doubt, our hands sweat, we turn the matter over 80 times to see where the mistake was and we feel bad because we don't trust our abilities. If I were more confident I would not hesitate so much and I would take action even with fear because I know that in the end everything will work out well because I trust in myself.
So well, I would love to change that insecure trait I have even in the silliest situations that come my way. The good thing is that it's something I can improve over time and manage to become more confident and secure. It's just a matter of continuing to work hard at it.

Well friends, this is my participation in the weekly contest. I hope you liked it and I invite you to participate as well to all of you who read me.
Thanks for coming here and supporting my content.
See you next time!

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Just like you said, "being afraid is inevitable," so there's no wrong in being scared of something, but we shouldn't let that fear swallow us whole. I hope things work out well for you on the insecurities aspect and that you'd be able to express yourself more just like you did with this post.
Speaking of pets, pandas are cute, too, and I have watched a few movies about them. I hope they don't go extinct, too.
Thank you so much for your good wishes and for stopping by to read the post. I appreciate it.
Pandas are beautiful.
Cheers!
I agree with you, I hope they never become extinct. Many of us have had that insecure trait in our lives, as you say, the good thing is that you can improve your security and confidence, even more so when you are working on it, thanks for sharing your experiences my friend,
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An interesting choice in a Panda bear! They do look cuddly!
Overcoming insecurity can be hard and does take time. Keep working at it; you will find as you grow older, it does tend to dissipate. Thank you for sharing and have a lovely day!
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