When Body Looks Become A Problem

One of the problems we have is taste, as much as I believe that no one's taste is less or big, it is worthy of note that what appeals to one person might not be pleasing to another.

We are all wonderfully made, some people are slim, some chubby, some tall, some short, some black, some white. All these make us who we are.

Funny how everyone has their preference, some prefer slim people, some chubby, some black, some white.

For instance, I don't have a choice for shape when it comes to relationships but slim ladies sometimes get my attention more.

I have a friend who prefers chubby ladies. If you ain't chubby, you can only be his friend but you can never go beyond that. That's how preference can be.

The truth is we all should be proud of how we look, and never try to alter our looks or shapes just because of what people say.

That shape or color you are trying to change is something someone out there is desiring.

Is it bad to want to change your looks or shape? Not at all, but the motives behind it should be genuine. For example if you want to look muscular as a man because it's something great to you, feel free to go ahead.

It is what you want. But when it is something done to please people then I think it is a terrible mistake.

I have seen a lot of people do crazy things to please others. You will see a lady go for surgery to increase some parts of her body because her man says she doesn't look like what he wants..

Very funny, even if it were something you want as a person, sometimes we should sit and check the consequences. It is very difficult to please people, the same man or woman that wants you looking a certain way might wake up one day and say “I don't like this look anymore.”

Will you go for another surgery? This is where I think it has gone far. Altering your looks or shapes to pleased people. Be who you are and appreciate your looks Whatever the case may be.

I was with a friend some time ago and she was like people used to make fun of body and men are scared to come around her because of her chubby look.

I told her see, be proud of your body but work out and stay fit. A man that loves you sincerely will come around and appreciate you the way you are

Trying to get approval from people is where our problems lie. We must understand that people will not always like what we want. You might not be their taste and trust me there is no length you will go that will make them change their minds.

So, instead of trying to hear good things from people about your looks, please take your time, build yourself, eat well, ensure you are staying healthy and fit, work out regularly and look great for yourself.

The person with the best looks and shape in the world doesn't look perfect to another person, and that person can point faults in the individual to back his/her point. So, you see it's not about looking perfect to people, no one can ever have that perfect look.

It's not people's opinions that matter, it's about you being good for yourself.

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