DISCONNECT YOURSELF FROM UNRELENVANT OR BAD FRIENDS
A story of a young Lady that bleeds out blood because of the bad advice she has taken from her friends by taking abortion pills. Yesterday in the night around 9:40 to 10: pm while we were still at work, we heard the sound of a car came with speed and parked outside our facility and they came in holding a young lady on their hands bleeding out blood severely. We rushed and took them to the female ward and started admitting treatment for the lady. Our medical director was attending to the young, infusing her different kinds of drips, mentrol infusion and normal saline because she was just crying of stomach pain and bleeding out blood profusely. I was just standing looking at what's going on in the female ward because am a laboratory personnel and not a nurse to assist the medical director over what he's doing. What surprised me was that while the lady has been undergoing treatment those people that brought were quarrelling and fighting themselves outside the the facility gate.
So, I left the ward and went outside to see and know what's going. When I got there I overheard them blaming and accusing each other for what happened . I couldn't asked them what's happening because is a family matter but I told them you stop shouting out loud or reduced the way they're quarreling because this is a hospital, where sick people are been treated of their sickness and not a beer parlor or football viewing center. After they have heard my complaints they stopped quarreling and fighting themselves. The medical director was done attending to the patient and called them to see him in his office.
Few of them went inside and met the medical director in his office while others stayed outside at the O.P.D. While they were inside talking, I overheard them saying the lady hasn't been sleeping at home for weeks and the mother hasn't said anything to the father or to them the Uncles because lately the lady has been proving or showing some stubborn attitudes or developing some character lately. But the mother said she the lady which is her daughter told her she will going for a traditional marriage with some of her friends and she allowed her to go not knowing she went to see her friend who gave her drugs to abort pregnancy. The woman said she didn't even know the daughter is pregnant.Even in the office the uncles were blaming the mother for not figuring out her daughter is pregnant and for not putting eyes on her daughter misbehaving recently.
The medical director was able to calmed them down and said the daughter must have taken abortion pill that must have caused her this pains and bleeding. But she's lucky she has been brought to the hospital on time if not she could have bleed to death if no one brought her. He asked where they took her and brought her from, the mother said she came back home this early morning and was complaining of stomach pains. She thought is a normal menstruation teens used to experience untill she saw the bleeding was much and the pain was massive she had to call the attention of the father.
It's crystal clear she came back home from her friend's place or the person that gave her the abortion pills and brought the situation upon her family. The lady was really in pain and couldn't even open her eyes wide let alone to talk as of when she was brought to the hospital. And none of her friends came to the hospital, perhaps they didn't know her current situation after taking the abortion pills and left their place last night. What happened is a bad accident that we need to learn lessons from it. As a young lady or man, know the kind of friends or company you keeps around you. Any person that won't add anything positive to your life, you need to cut such person off from your life. Disconnect yourself from bad friends or friends that are not relevant to your life.
Her mother didn't know she's pregnant but is a sure thing her friends knows about it. And it could be her friends that must have advice her into taking the abortion pills. Some ladies might say we have done it and taken the pills and it works for us. But do you know what work for someone might not works for you? Be very careful with the kind of friends or people you associate with them. Any friend that's giving you an advice that will endanger your life, don't take it and be careful with such friends. For me is better to even keep the pregnancy than try to abort it, knowing the risks involves by taking such drugs.
Be wise and let be careful with the kind of decisions we made at the expense of our lives.