Love isn't blind.

Is 'love actually blind?', My answer is no! Love isn't blind, but loves beyond perfection.While the popular adage says 'love is blind' suggests that romantic love clouds judgement living those in love to overlook some certain flaws, imperfections and 'red flags'I believe that true love requires a perfect understanding of the one you claim to love, and rather than being blind, love can be a profound acceptance of one's partner, this perspective points to the fact that love can transform, heal and foster unity. Even though, there are strengths and weaknesses of one's partner, but in as much the weaknesses are not grievous or distrasious enduring love can brings about perfection.

True love often means acceptance of imperfections from the one you love. Why do I say this, some ladies like the romantic side of guys, like breakfast on bed, occasional hang out or date, sweet love notes or text messages, thoughtful gifts etc. But this same guy may not exhibit none or most of these qualities highlighted above, and the same lady will stick to the man, why because emotionally they are okay, they do not display uncorformed behaviour in society like drugs, anger, adultery, etc. Accepting this on the part of one partner is genuine love.

Clear eyes understanding of love is also very important in understanding that true love isn't blind. This involves having a Deep understanding of strengths and weaknesses of one's partner. For instance, some men likes their privacy, and the fact that they wants to propose marriage to their dream girls won't make them change their standard of having an outside big events proposal, where photography will be taken, decoration and balloon with cakes and all the paparazzi...., these sets of men might prefer to propose marriage in the corner of their homes, private hangout etc. A lady that doesn't understand this will however be frustrated in the love journey.

Mutual Support is another significant element of staying true to love, if we believe that love isn't blind, then we should genuinely support the one we love. Here, I might not like the nature of my spouse work, for instance, I personally prefer to be gainfully employed by a standard organisation because of the stability it brings in it's income generating to the family, the fact that my spouse will dress formally to work is another reason why I prefer it, but my hubby prefer to be his own boss, and I accept him that way, not dressing formally to his place of work and it's unstable nature, am I blind to accept this, no! but I decide to love and support him regardless.

Love is blind is a timeless adage that believes that when people are in love they see beyond imperfections, overlook some certain flaws, in their partners.This phrase is an irrational side of love which can be cancel, since people in love are not gullible. Love can therefore embrace acceptance of imperfections, mutual support and and clear eye understanding. Love is therefore not blind.

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