I Had No Choice But To End It

When I was in the higher institution back then in 2017, I met a beautiful young lady that got attracted to me with her lovely smile and beautiful eyes. This her look really got to me that I didn't hesitate in approaching her in other to know her more. Having a conversation with her for the very first time seems like as if we have been friends before because she was free and friendly to relate with.

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She never made me feel like a stranger as our conversation went smoothly without she turning me down at all. I collected her contact at the end of our little meeting and told her I will like to date her, she smiled and replied so fast but her response was she will get back to me that she needed to be sure if she would accept or not.

I called her the following day to know if she had accepted my friendship and she said yes but I should keep to my promise. Our journey being in a relationship was going well as we both understand and love each other. Though, there are times we do quarrel and have misunderstanding which is common between lovers but at the end we do settle as well.

I was still a student back then while she was into catering business and this at some point wanted to be shaky in the relationship as I wasn't working then. She knew about my situation but didn't bother as she believe the future will be better when am done with school. She do support me sometimes with finance back then in school and to be sincere I appreciate her for such gesture.

Despite the fact all this was going on smoothly in the relationship, there was a challenge at her own side as she was eager and ready to get married while am not because I am still planning to secure a better future before marriage can set in. The truth is, we both love each other but then the pressure she is getting to get married from family and friends is becoming unbearable and in my own side am not ready at all.

I can't just accept to marry her when I am not financially stable but I have plans in the future to marry her but not so soon. My aim is to graduate from school and then have something doing to generate income so as I can be in a position to take care of my family.

But since she was been pressurized to get married and myself I wasn't ready at that time, we both decided to go our separate ways. Though, it was a hard decision to take as i love her so much but I didn't regret my action as I want the best for her and myself which wasn't going to happen between us.