Getting busy with life.

Good day every one, welcome to my blog.

The people closest to you can be the biggest stranger, this can be caused by a lot of factors which may be worked on if the parties involved are willing to waxing their friendship or closeness.

My image.
At time, this people became strangers not because they intended to but because they got busy with life. Progress is a gradual thing, for every floor of progress attained, there are responsiblities and expectations which must be meet.

In the process of trying to fit in to their newly accuquire, secured or merrited position, what we shared with them may suffer from silence, lack of communication and from there our friendship or what we once shared may only remain as a past experience.

While all this is going on, the one who got busy trying to fit into the new role before them may be leaving their life to the fullest while the one who felt left behind may become a stalker who would be monitoring the other party both online and offline.

To make sure that this person did not intentionally sideline us, we may decide to stretch forth some hands of love by inviting them to do few of the things you do together in the time past and see how they respond. If the response is positive, they just got busy with life but if the response is negative, I am not sorry to say that they have left you behind.

From my experience, I have this sister in-law whom I like to introduce around as my sister. No one would ever know that she is my sister in-law except I say it out. The closeness we shared is second to non, she is my go to person if I need any support be it an advice or financial support.

We had been through thick and thin together and all of a sudden she got busy with life that we hardly talked up to twice in a year. I called her one day inviting her children to an hangout I was planning for my children, funny enough, she outdid herself. Then I draw up my conclusion that she just got busy with life.

Since then, I call her once in a while to check up on her family. Each time I call, she would return my call almost immediately and we would do some family gist, catching up and amebo because dropping the call. This shows that she didn't wish to life just happened and she became busy.

Thank you fir reading, i am @ellizy