We don't talk enough about the strength it takes to be calm
In a world that constantly rewards loudness, boldness, and "making noise," calm people are often overlooked. We praise the outspoken, the fiery, the confrontational, as if those are the only traits that equal strength. But we rarely talk about how much strength it actually takes to stay calm in the middle of chaos.
Staying calm when you're being misunderstood is not weakness. Choosing silence over shouting when you're angry takes discipline. Holding yourself back from reacting immediately, especially when you're provoked, requires a level of maturity not everyone has.
The world doesn't teach us to value that kind of control. Social media, for example, feeds on reaction. The faster and louder you respond, the more engagement you get. But what if we started respecting the people who don’t react immediately? The ones who choose to process their emotions before responding?
Calmness isn’t passivity. It’s control. It’s focus. It’s power directed inward. And honestly, it’s a kind of power that’s becoming rare.
There are people walking around with storms inside them, but they’ve learned to carry it quietly. That doesn’t mean they’re weak. That means they’ve mastered a level of self awareness most people haven’t. The truth is, anyone can yell. Anyone can type out a harsh comment or react without thinking. But it takes true strength to say, “Let me wait before I respond.”
Being calm doesn’t mean you’re emotionless. It means you’ve learned not to let your emotions control your every move. And that’s a skill, not everyone can do it.
This is not to say you should bottle up your feelings or avoid confrontation entirely. But sometimes, silence is louder than words. Sometimes, the most powerful thing you can do is to not react the way someone expects you to.
In a world where people are constantly trying to prove themselves, imagine being the person who doesn’t feel the need to do so. That’s not just peace, that’s power.
Maybe it’s time we stop mistaking calmness for weakness. Maybe we should start seeing it as the rare strength it really is.
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Sometimes in a place or community where you're silent , they take you for a fool for not reacting harshly to things, which should'nt be .just like your write-up ,it takes level of maturity to do that and it should be respected.
Love your write-up👍
You are on point, we just have to be the matured ones, thanks
Speaking out and staying calm... both are not easy. There's a time to be calm and the time for the other. And yes! Staying calm when the storm is brewing isn't an easy task. It takes patience and a very high keen of focus to do that.
Sure, and a high level of maturity, and self control.
Thanks
I shouted yes! At the latter part of your post. I’ve always believed that calmness is actually power. As someone who always wants to speak up, I find it powerful when someone doesn’t even speak at all. Indeed, we should know when to do what but silence will definitely be forever golden.
You are right because most times silence holds innumerable value.