The First Menstruation

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Ser madre de una niña es un gran bendición, ella se convierte en la princesa consentida de la casa y es hermoso ver como se convierte en una Linda jovencita.

A medida que nuestras hijas van creciendo son muchos los cambios que ocurren en su cuerpo y es normal que sienta inquietudes por saber que le esta pasando, el por qué de los cambios en su cuerpo.

Es en esa etapa de su vida donde la madre debe responder a las preguntas de su hija, informarla para que este preparada y sepa que en cualquier momento puede llegar su primera menstruación, sin embargo algunas madres eligen mantener el silencio.

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Being a mother of a girl is a great blessing, she becomes the spoiled princess of the house and it is beautiful to see how she becomes a beautiful young lady.

As our daughters grow up there are many changes that occur in her body and it is normal to feel anxious to know what is happening to her, the reason for the changes in her body.

It is at this stage of her life where the mother must answer her daughter's questions, inform her so that she is prepared and knows that at any moment her first menstruation may come, however some mothers choose to keep silent.


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Hay temas que no se pueden ignorar, es importante mantener una buena comunicación con nuestras niñas ,ya que en algunos casos la primera menstruación puede una experiencia traumática para la niña.

Recuerdo que en mi infancia mi madre tenia pena de hablar conmigo sobre ese tema, no se tomo el tiempo para explicarme que debía hacer cuando mi primera menstruación llegara, solo me dijo que cuando sucediera le dijera al oído una clave : Mami me volví Chocolate😅, ahora que lo pienso eso que me dijo no tenia sentido pero cuando ese dia llego le dije estas palabras.

Ese primer periodo fue a mis 11 años, para ese momento mi cuerpo no había sufrido muchos cambios, me agarro de sorpresa, fue una experiencia traumática durante 12 días estuve sangrando, no podía caminar de la irritación que sentía por el uso de las toallas sanitarias.

Mi madre lo hizo así conmigo porque en su infancia ese era un tema del cual no se hablaba entre ella y su madre, por esta razón ella pensaba que era normal no decirme nada al respecto.

Debido a esta mala experiencia cuando mi hija nació una de las cosas que tenia en mi lista de tareas era informarla en el tiempo adecuado sobre este tema para evitar los miedos y responder a sus inquietudes.

There are issues that cannot be ignored, it is important to maintain good communication with our girls, since in some cases the first menstruation can be a traumatic experience for the girl.

I remember in my childhood my mother was embarrassed to talk to me about that topic, she didn't take the time to explain to me what I should do when my first menstruation came, she only told me that when it happened to tell her a code: Mommy I became Chocolate😅, now that I think about it what she told me didn't make sense but when that day came I told her these words.

That first period was when I was 11 years old, by that time my body had not undergone many changes, it caught me by surprise, it was a traumatic experience for 12 days I was bleeding, I could not walk because of the irritation I felt from the use of sanitary napkins.

My mother did it this way with me because in her childhood this was a topic that was not talked about between her and her mother, for this reason she thought it was normal not to tell me anything about it.

Because of this bad experience when my daughter was born one of the things I had on my to-do list was to inform her at the right time about this topic to avoid fears and answer her concerns.


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El apoyo de la Madre es muy importante en la vida de una niña cuando llega este momento, las dulces palabras de la madre pueden alejar los miedos.

En el caso de mi Hija Eli cuando ese dia especial llego ella estaba preparada y emocionada, me decía que se sentía grande😄.

Su padre también fue de mucha ayuda, el mismo le explico como debía colocar la toalla sanitaria en su ropa interior igualmente la importancia del higiene en esos días, entre bromas y risas le dio una lección importante.

Mi hija no tuvo miedo de decirnos los detalles, lo rara que sentía como ella misma expreso, lo tomo muy normal, porque estaba en confianza con sus padres.

Sus abuelos la Felicitaron, le dieron recomendaciones y ese gesto para ella fue como haber alcanzado un logro.

Hace unos días recordábamos esos momentos y la verdad no me había fijado en algunos detalles de esos días, es agradable después de un largo tiempo hablar este tema con mi hija, volver a compartir las experiencias.

Mother's support is very important in a girl's life when this moment arrives, the sweet words of the mother can take away the fears.

In the case of my daughter Eli when that special day came she was ready and excited, she told me that she felt big😄.

Her father was also very helpful, he explained to her how to put the sanitary napkin in her underwear and also the importance of hygiene in those days, between jokes and laughter he gave her an important lesson.

My daughter was not afraid to tell us the details, how strange she felt as she expressed, she took it very normal, because she was in confidence with her parents.

Her grandparents congratulated her, gave her recommendations and that gesture for her was like having achieved an accomplishment.

A few days ago we were remembering those moments and the truth is that I had not noticed some details of those days, it is nice after a long time to talk about this subject with your daughter, to share the experiences again.


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The arrival of puberty is troublesome for both the girls and the boys. In my society also, the subject is not discussed between parents and the child in a friendly manner.

My menstruation experience was horrifying. At least your mom told you that you became a chocolate. I had no prior information about the coming experience. After I experienced it finally, I asked my mom why it happens. She was like it's a calamity of womanhood.

It made me cry. I felt like I was cursed.

I am glad to know that you people deal with your girl the way she feels accomplished. Menstruation is a milestone that deserves appreciation.

God bless your daughter

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So it is for some mothers the issue of menstruation of their daughters is a mystery, it is traumatic to go through that stage without proper guidance, thank you for your wishes for my daughter and your nice invitation to dreemport.

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Mothers need to learn the right way of guiding their daughters.

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Baby looks so cute, the joy seeing them growing up though, its very amusing , am glad you always find the time to bound with her.

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thank you very much for stopping by and commenting on this content, I wish you a nice day.

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Es un momento de emoción y de nervios me alegra que tu hija haya estado preparada física y emocionalmente para ese momento porque es que existen padres que nisiquiera quieren tocar el tema no se ni entiendo las razones pero se que los hay. Saludos

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It was an exciting moment, to support our daughters at this stage is very important, the truth is shared many emotions when there is communication. thanks for commenting, happy day.

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@elisaday7 Es muy importante hablar de estos temas con nuestros hijos, abiertamente para que sepan que es un proceso normal y lo acepten sin traumas,confiados. Me alegra que hayas disfrutado de esa etapa.un abrazo

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Thank you for appreciating this personal testimony, it is very important to communicate in the home, especially on topics like these.

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